wreckedhero Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 We broke up over a week ago. I texted her on Tuesday night asking if it was over for good. She has said she has needed time to get her head together and that if I keep on texting her it's over for good. Advice needed on what her intentions are and what I should think and do?
vsmini Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 She told you not to contact her and she means it. There's no way any of us could know what's going on in her head and neither can you. Don't even try to understand exactly what she is going through because you can never be sure. You guys broke up. She does not want you to contact her. You have to leave her alone. Texting her or checking in to see if she is ok will only make things worse. Trust me. If she wants you to know what's going on in her head she will tell you.
Author wreckedhero Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 Wouldn't it just have been easier for her to tell me that we were done?
TheLoneSock Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 She has said she has needed time to get her head together Translation: "I need time to get over you; a couple more weeks to gain enough strength to finally say it's over for good. Then I can move on guilt free."
Author wreckedhero Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 Awww well. Could it be that she is really thinking things over in her head? Or just keeping me dangling on a string?
nyckidd Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 She may just need time. The question is, how long are you willing to wait? One of exes said that to me and I kept pushing her and pucshing her, then begging etc. She ended it for good, blocked my number, and cut off all communication between us. 6 months later she was begging me back. I was over her by then, but what made me laugh was when I asked, why didnt you take me back in the beginign? Why do you want me now?--she replied with "I just needed time, and the way you acted pushed me so far away and then I was sure that breaking up with you was the right desicion." So if I had givin her time, things would have worked out. I just wasnt willing to wait. Ask yourself that same question.
Author wreckedhero Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 Yeah good idea. I just think no contact means she could be out meeting other people so it's a calculated risk. How long would you good people say is an acceptable amount to wait before giving up all hope?
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