Lost all hope - dumped by a (tunrs out, recently separated) man

[LostAllHope]

Not to sound too dramatic or anything...!

But.

 

I've been used, and then tossed aside, by a man who actively showed interest in me. Won me over after I came to realise he had a huge percentage of stuff that's just fine by me.

 

Asked me if I was single ( I am). When I asked him "What about you?", he said "I'm separated".

 

He seemed quite lovestruck with me; we've had some excellent times together, he's my first real 'love interest' in 9 years.

 

One Fine Day - tunrs out his wife ( who was overseas) wants to return permamnently ( his words).

 

When I asked him how long he'd been separted - his answer stunned me - it turns out to be One Month.

 

One Month! that's an argument! Not a separation.

 

Now they're living the long-time married couple life, and me - I've been cut out of the picture. He didn't take my two calls and I stopped endorsing his presence with any more.

 

But - I am devastated and honestly don't want to EVER trust a man again.

 

I did show some spine - and, ahem - Called His Wife ...

[bernardverh]

Edit: oh double thread

Edited May 6, 2011 by bernardverh