vsmini Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 No. I would not. Some people would though if they were looking for an unhealthy outlet of some sort or wanted an ego boost from having another person desire them.
Flgirl44 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 No I wouldn't. Im not trying to generalize men here but there was an article a prostitute was talking about her job and she said men would sleep way below themselves if they think nobody would find out. Meaning you'd be surprised what men would sleep with without their friends there to give them a hard time about it.
Eeyore79 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Why would I want to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to? It would be repulsive and not enjoyable, so what possible reason could there be for doing it? (Apart from money/prostitution, which I wouldn't engage in)
samspade Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 No I wouldn't. Im not trying to generalize men here but there was an article a prostitute was talking about her job and she said men would sleep way below themselves if they think nobody would find out. Meaning you'd be surprised what men would sleep with without their friends there to give them a hard time about it. Interesting. We know what men will do for sex though - go to any prison. That's when they're desperate. So you could make the argument that a man who is hopeless and cannot get the women he wants will "sleep way below" himself and pay for the cheapest, most beat down hooker available to blow his load. And yet - is he truly sleeping below himself if this is what he's decided he's worth? Sounds to me like he's playing at his level, because that's all he thinks he can get. The ego will always lie in the name of self-assurance. Men who know they can and will get the women they want will eschew women they aren't attracted to - for them it's a buyer's market. Of course, they attract far more women partly by way of this attitude and mindset. That's the sexual marketplace for you. Even a man who currently has no belle to call on will not prostitute himself for an ugly or a fattie if he knows that he truly can do much better. However, I'll grant you that in that great middle area between player and loser are men who have probably slept with a woman they wouldn't normally bother with. The mitigating factor? Probably easy sex. The path of least resistance can be dangerous. It works both ways though. The uglier or fatter the woman, the fewer roadblocks she's likely to throw on her own mission to snag a man. And she too is probably willing to "sleep below herself." At least that's what her ego will be telling her. The lesson here, of course, for men and women, is not to "sleep down." And since you asked a simple question....my simple answer is no.
musemaj11 Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 No I wouldn't. Im not trying to generalize men here but there was an article a prostitute was talking about her job and she said men would sleep way below themselves if they think nobody would find out. Meaning you'd be surprised what men would sleep with without their friends there to give them a hard time about it. When the testosterone pressure is over the top, anyone or anything with a hole is a fair game. You don't understand unless u r a man.
Star Gazer Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 If my dry spell had lasted any longer than it did, I just might have...!! But now, no.
cerridwen Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Never again. The guy I tried it with was great-looking but not especially appealing to me. I just couldn't "get it up"!
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Men do it all the time. Just because he is making out with you and f.... you, doesn't mean he is physically attracted to you unfortunately....
Ross MwcFan Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Why would someone have sex with someone who they don't find physically attractive though?
somedude81 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Would I initiate sex with them? No. Have I has sex with somebody I wasn't attracted to? Yes. I was horny and the situation to have sex presented itself and I went through with it. I never kissed them.
nyc_guy2003 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 I'll approach this question another way. My social status has gone way up in the last few years. If I think back to all the girls I dated, there are a lot of them that I would not consider attractive enough for me to have sex with today. But they were good enough for me back then.
Jynxx Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 The question doesn't make sense. If you're horny you will automatically find more people physically attractive. The hornier the more people are attractive. You wouldn't have sex with anyone you didn't find attractive, but your attractiveness standards will go down when you're in need.
somedude81 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 The question doesn't make sense. If you're horny you will automatically find more people physically attractive. The hornier the more people are attractive. You wouldn't have sex with anyone you didn't find attractive, but your attractiveness standards will go down when you're in need. I get the feeling that you're not a man. A desperate man will have sex to have sex and it doesn't matter what she looks like, within reason. Attraction played no part in it. But if the sex wasn't just offered and I had to work for it, I would not pursue somebody I wasn't attracted to.
Jynxx Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 I get the feeling that you're not a man. A desperate man will have sex to have sex and it doesn't matter what she looks like, within reason. Attraction played no part in it. But if the sex wasn't just offered and I had to work for it, I would not pursue somebody I wasn't attracted to. Is this an attempt to make me pm you pics of my dick? But seriously, I think the only thing we don't agree on is the definition of attraction. You say A desperate man will have sex to have sex and it doesn't matter what she looks like, within reason.I say A desperate man will be attracted to anyone he has a shot at, within reason.
Fondue Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Would I have sex with someone I find physically unattractive? No. Will I accept a BJ if I was super horny and said unattractive girl was just simply wanting to give it to me? Yes. I wouldn't agree to sex, but if I would probably (depending on how horny I am that moment) accept oral pleasure if it means I don't have to make out with them or anything else. That's my honest answer. EDIT: The only reason why I'm so specific about this is because there were several instances where this came up and that's how I proceeded. I have no issues with receiving some good oral pleasure from someone not expecting anything back .
PhillyDude Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Would you apply for a job that paid $2.00 a hour with no benefits?
Red Arremer Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Would you apply for a job that paid $2.00 a hour with no benefits? I would if it was the difference between me eating or starving to death.
PhillyDude Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 I would if it was the difference between me eating or starving to death. If all you could get was a $2.00 an hour job then that would mean you have absolutely no skills or education. And if I tred to have sex with a ugly women that would mean I'm physically repulsive and not dating material.
Feelin Frisky Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 No. I don't do that. I suppose my arm could be twisted under certain rare circumstances but, no.
somedude81 Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 If all you could get was a $2.00 an hour job then that would mean you have absolutely no skills or education. And if I tred to have sex with a ugly women that would mean I'm physically repulsive and not dating material. Now you're starting to get the idea.
Darren Taylor Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Absolutely not. It's a waste of their time, and more importantly my time. Why would I go after a woman I'm not attracted to?
fishtaco Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Not my preference, but depending on the situation, why not. Although I certainly wouldn't spend any effort on her, she'll have to initiate.
USCGAviator Posted May 8, 2011 Posted May 8, 2011 If we were the only two human beings alive on the planet then........YES
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