OCCDAVE Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 i notice a pattern with this girl amy ive been seeing.on the first date few days leading up to it she went dark.she explained she was busy with school i said no biggie .2nd date comes this time i waited 3 days to confirm the next date all was.good.well last friday we both had fun and both said we liked each other.i gave her small kiss she text me she had fun thank you so much.well todays thursday still no word what gives?
Professor X Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Why didn't you contact her? Some girls like it when the guy initiate things. Talk to her and feel things.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 im not sure guess i was thinking why should i always make first contact.it seems im always the one starting convos or should i expect to so early on in a relationship?
Professor X Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 You've only been with her on 2 dates, so yes, you will need to initiate things for a bit longer; When you've been with her for 2 months and she's still acting like this then I'll tell you to move, but so early? no. She might very well be thinking the same: "Oh, I've been with this guy for only 2 dates and now he doesn't call me anymore, I think he isn't interested."
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 ya i was thinking she may have been turned off just didnt wanna seem clingy or be like hey where u been meh.ill send her a text now guess ill just keep it short right notin like i guess were not seeing each other this week
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 thanks again x i just wanted to give her space and not come off clingy
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