vsmini Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Yea - the returning of the stuff is understandable. I do remember one ex (yea, I've really racked 'em up) thought it would be a good idea to give me back my stuff at work (we worked together) like 3 months after we broke up. It was a nightie, a pie plate and a recycle shopping bag. WTF? I didn't need that crap back and thanks for giving it back to me in front of co-workers. A$s. Dang - i forgot about that story. Never date a co-worker either lol
Author shakala Posted May 7, 2011 Author Posted May 7, 2011 Yea - the returning of the stuff is understandable. I do remember one ex (yea, I've really racked 'em up) thought it would be a good idea to give me back my stuff at work (we worked together) like 3 months after we broke up. It was a nightie, a pie plate and a recycle shopping bag. WTF? I didn't need that crap back and thanks for giving it back to me in front of co-workers. A$s. Dang - i forgot about that story. Never date a co-worker either lol he must have believed you were hard core green if he was returning a limited edition recycle bag!
vsmini Posted May 7, 2011 Posted May 7, 2011 Yea - I don't have all the answers but I do know what I did wrong in my past, my poor dating patterns and behavior and I was smart enough and humble enough to learn from them and not just blame it on everyone else. I hope this girl can do the same. Now I'm with a guy that I love dearly and I can't imagine pulling any of this crap on him. Go find a girl that feels the same way. And do your best not to get sucked back into this girl's vortex. I suggest mulling around on http://www.baggagereclaim.com it's amazing and talks about boundaries, healthy relationships, etc. It's geared more towards women but it has a ton of insight for men. Besides - boundaries, respect and relationships go for both men and women.
Author shakala Posted May 8, 2011 Author Posted May 8, 2011 She texted me a few things yesterday and then called to tell me she quit her job. Of course she was crying so being the guy I am I spoke to her briefly and told her she needs to figure her shot out and we can talk tues. Later on she texted me saying she missed me. I ignored it. I thought she was going home to spend time with family but found out she was goin out to the bars again. That made no sense to me. This whole time u want to tell me u want to be alone go see fam etc. I basically told her that before we dated I made it clear I didn't want a partier. She said hangin with friends at bars isn't partying. I told her that going out 5 out of the past 7 days is not normal non single life actions. Yes I know it was wrong of me to even talk to her but sometimes I like putting people in their place.
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