WantingHerBack Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I try to keep this short as possible. About 9 months ago i split up with my ex, there is a topic on this forum about it but top and bottom was it was her choice but my fault. I was devastated and chasing her for about 2 weeks after until i found out she was seeing some1 else. Thanks to advice on here i went NC and stuck with it for the next 8 months plus. i heard a while back she had split up with her new bf but by this time NC had helped me to move on. fast forward another month or 2 and i seen her on a night out, she was with a few of my female friends so we had a little chat. The next morning i got a msg on facebook from her and she wants to meet and catch up this weekend, on top of this she said "first proper time seein you after 9 months i aint goin lie it killed me and went home early". Now until this week i had not really thought about her in a good while yet now i find myself almost too excited at the thought of seeing her this weekend and where things may lead. We was together for 5 years and im starting to worry im getting myself back into a position where i can get really hurt again This is the reason im unsure if i should be meeting her at all as i clearly have more feelings for her than i thought still any advice would be really appreciated
seibert253 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Sometimes when you set them free, they come back. Next delimna, do you want them back?
Author WantingHerBack Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 thats the thing, i know if i start speaking with her again i would with no doubt be desperate to get back with her but i dont know if thats even entered her mind. i am very happy with my own life atm and this could become a real cause of pain to me in the near future i guess the next dilema then is if i think its all worth the risk if there is a small chance of working things out well
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