bdash Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Hi all, first off thanks to thatdog for his reply to my thread a bit over a week ago. We have had finals so I haven't had a chance to test your advice, but I will reply when I do. That said, since then I have met two people, asked both out and gotten no's. I got "friend-zoned" in both cases. This has been a recurring problem for me, so I figure: 1) girls really just want to be friends with me, but find me undateable for some reason (which is possible, but I certainly hope this isn't the case) 2) my timing/process sucks. Generally what I do when I meet someone is get their number (obviously), wait a day or two, text them and have a nice conversation (which is generally small talk), wait a day, do this again and ask them out at the end of the second conversation. Does this seem like a reasonable way of meeting/talking/asking girls out? What do you do and what changes would you suggest?
chuckles11 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Ask them out during the first phone call after you get their number. Women your age won't require you to spend a lot of time chit chatting prior to going on a date if they are interested in you. Also, don't get discouraged. Two rejections a week is nothing. You may get rejected 50 times before you meet someone who is interested. The only way you're going to improve at this is by putting yourself out there.
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