GaelicSoul Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Hi All, Well today is my birthday, im 28 and am in NC now with my Ex girlfriend for nearly 85 days. Backstory http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t262599/ We havent spoken since my post above in early February. I have been doing ok, and been keeping myself busy with work and re connecting with old friends. Some days can be tough, i often think back and wonder where things went wrong. Today being my birthday, i suppose there is a part of me wondering if i will hear from her or not. If i dont, who cares. Its only a day. As far as i know shes still single, and seems to be going out a lot drinking with her new Girlfriends. She became very close with one girl before the breakup in January who was also single. I still have no answers, and i know i never will. Im glad that i have kept my dignity, never begged, no late texting or calling. All i ever done was asked to meet for coffee in febuary, however she declined in the 11th hour. For anybody who has been dumped, hang in there. Thigns do get better, and your thoughts and mind will begin to settle. Im nowhere near as bad as i was a month or two ago. I have accepted it, and am moving on. To this day i still believe in my heart, its her loss. Why would you want anybody in your life, who always leaves when the chips are down. Thanks for all your advice GS
Author GaelicSoul Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 Honestly, yes. But thats life, she doesnt love me so what can i do but dust myself off and move on with my live.
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