Chops Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Hi Guys, First time on this forum, please be gentle with me.. I meet a girl a few weeks ago and we have just been on our 3rd date. I like the girl and she's very attractive. The conversation is great, we have things in common and I see her as a challenging person. (i.e. she has an opinion and happily challenges my views etc) which is great. The last 2 dates we've kissed, and our last kiss was particularly passionate. It was in the car when I was dropping her off so a little awkward. But lots of hands, lots of heavy-breathing and generally enjoyable. Some further information about her: **She seems quite traditional and maybe shy, even though she's a professional fun-loving girl. (Maybe a Capricorn thing) **She keeps herself really busy: Works fulltime, studies part time, exercises a lot, see's friends a lot and is part of various community groups. There is one problem. Her responsiveness to calls and SMS is really poor. She has been like this since we first met. I called her the other night to arrange our next catchup and nothing has come back. I'm getting tired of the unresponsive thing and dont know if she's seeing others. Being playing it quite cool up until now.. making myself scarce and often being cocky with her.. but we always have a good time when out.. Ideas? I'm thinking I'll let her play chase a little and if she does get back to me, seem some what busy and slightly disinterested..
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Ideas? I'm thinking I'll let her play chase a little and if she does get back to me, seem some what busy and slightly disinterested.. Lol Capricorn thing. But please don't seem busy and slightly disinterested. BE INTERESTED...just not too overly enthusiastic haha. Have you tried Facebook? If she is really bad about responding...ask her She'll either tell you a good truth, or make up some bs to "let you down easy." Use your intuition. Personally, when I really like a guy, I'm all over my phone and his FB. My heart jumps a little when my phone buzzes with a text, and I check his FB wall to see what's up a least once a day.
oaks Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I'm getting tired of the unresponsive thing and dont know if she's seeing others. If there is a fourth date it wouldn't be unreasonable to ask "Are you seeing anyone else?" Being playing it quite cool up until now.. making myself scarce and often being cocky with her.. but we always have a good time when out.. Making yourself scarce sounds a bit like playing games which isn't usually a positive move and won't change her behaviour. Positive reinforcement when she does things the way you like might have better results, eg tell her "I like it when you call me"
Author Chops Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 (edited) Thanks guys.. strange thing is that if a stay patient she comes around.. I think I'll keep it warm and see if anything does come my way, otherwise start seeing others.. Edited May 5, 2011 by Chops
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