Timbomb Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I posted a couple days ago under a different section, and i felt like it was under the wrong category so instead of cross posting, ill let you go read the the whole story if you feel led to. Just to break everything down, i just broke up with my girlfriend three weeks ago. We dated for around two years. We had a good relationship and it was very memorable. She was my first love, and i was her first love. I broke up with her, and she rebounded two weeks later to a new relationship. This person was her best friend for 10 years, despite the fact they fought alot. I feel lost as most people would, and i want her back because i feel in my heart that it is not over. Not to talk trash about this person because i have no right to, he is not her type. . . like no one scene her dating him. So you can use your imagination. So, i want her back. I talked to her a week ago and she said she was happy. Her parents says she doesn't complain about being sick anymore (She has JRA) and shes a different person. I know that's her parents. . . but i can see it in class. What is the right thing to do if i want her back, and how can i overcome this battle with my anxiety? It shuts me down, and even the pills the doctor gave me don't do that much. I am trying to improve my self like loose a little weight and battle all the stuff i have been using as crutches, but i can't if i feel this way. Also i don't know if its God or my head, but something inside me keeps telling me she will come back, but its hard to be patience when i pray for a sign and haven't gotten one. . . yet. Any advice is very appreciated right now because i am going though a rough time. Thank you!
Renard99 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I think all you can do is let her know, as briefly and as simply as you can, that you still have feelings for her and you believe that you made a mistake to end the relationship. Tell her you'd like nothing more than to give it another go and that she should contact you if she feels the same. You then leave it at that and wait and see if you get a reply. Whilst your waiting you have to try to move on with your life and prepare for the idea that she may never come back to you. It will be painful, many of us here on LS have been there and know what it's like, but in the end you will come out of it a better person. If she does reply and say she wants to get back with you then that's a bonus. Overall you must be prepared to face the fact she may never come back.
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