cartwright31 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 So I have not really dated or been in a relationship for almost 2 years and the reason being is yes im scared and its hard for me to trust at times. I am ready though for a relationship and I am so nice that I think I push or run guys away. I have been dating this guy for 2 months and yes I know that is not very long but something weird has happen and I want to say I have pushed or scared him away. We have been out on one date since we started talking and I can't be mad bc he works 6 days a week so most of the time we just hang out at his place or mine. So we really see each other twice a week and I have nothing wrong with that. He says that he likes me and he hasn't been in a relationship since last year and he has told me that he is really scared about jumping into things since he got hurt in the past. Ok ok I understand that I mean who hasn't been hurt before when it comes to relationships. Well being the sweet nice country girl that I am I was raised to make that person happy and be by their side no matter what. Well this past weekend I went back home to work and I don't have the best service but I still get text if I recieve one. I never hear from him unless I text him first but every now and then he will throw out a text like good morning darlin just out of the blue. Well he told me that we could hangout this past sunday afternoon since we hadn't seen each other in 5 days. I texted him goodmorning on sunday and no answer...well I texted again around 3 saying hey are we still hanging out later...hmmm still no answer. Well around 9 I was getting a little frustrated but I thought that something was wrong so I drove over to his house and he was there. So I got blown off all day pretty much..which really sucks and kinda upset me. So I texted him the next day to ask him if he had sent off something that I had asked him to and he replied yes I did...Is there something wrong???? OK what the heck its like he was trying to ignore sunday night in a way. Well I just told him that it hurt that I didn't get a text and it feels like im the one who is always trying and yet I know that he is scared I am still trying to be there for him. What do I do? Did I really push him away for good and how do I get him just to talk to me? The last text I sent him was today and all I said was that im leaving him alone for awhile and if he wants me then he will talk to me but if not he needs to man up and tell me whats going on. grrrr im no upset and frustrated on how guys deal with issues and how they let good girls go.
vsmini Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 He just doesn't sound that interested and you should not waste your time. "Well being the sweet nice country girl that I am I was raised to make that person happy and be by their side no matter what." Make sure this line doesn't come back to blow up in your pretty face. Take care of you and when you find someone worthy of standing by their side you can do so - otherwise you might be wasting your time pouring so much energy into someone that doesn't deserve it.
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