I like you alot but I dont want a relationship right now ( warning long story)

[baypoint1]

Ok so ive been close friends with this girl for about 8 months now, 7 of which she was dating the same guy. I had like her for a while now but didnt do anything because she was with him, but they broke up about a month ago and i told her how i felt about a week ago. she was saying she liked me alot too and that i was cute sweet blablabla so i asked her out on a date. we ended up going to a movie then to pier then layed on beach at night and kissed. she said it was perfect and she wanted to do it again. But my friend showed me some texts a few days ago from her because he was askin her about me and she was saying that she just wanted to be friends and stuff. so i asked her about it and she said she didn't want one of us to get hurt and wanted to stop it before we did and she didn't wana get her heart broken again. so i did my best to talk her outa this and she said she needed time to think. but 2 days ago we got into a fight because i txted her something and she took it the complete wrong way, i apologized but shes not really one to get over stuff so easy. so i gave her space and then ive got some my friends that shes also friends with coming up to me saying shes saying our date was terrible and that she tried to stop me from kissing her (she kissed me). so i was pissed and asked her about it and she said she just said that because she was mad and that shes not mad at me anymore. so i was like w/e and then like 5 hrs later she blocks me on Facebook. i was like wtf and one my friends asked her about it and she just didn't answer him. later that night she texts me "hi" and i said "uh...hi". and she immediately says "look im sorry about earlier i haven't been acting myself lately". so i said "why d u block me on Facebook?"(i was still mad at the time). and she said "idk but i unblocked you".so i was like "uh ok". and she said "do you forgive me". and i said "i guess". and we started texting about nothing it was just awkward. next day in school (high school) we didn't talk at all(we usually talk alot). then she called me after school acting like nothing was wrong. so im confused on what she wants and just wanted some advice on weather or not i should keep pursuing her or just forget about it, thanks.

[vsmini]

I'm 28 year old female and I'm quite sure about what I'm telling you.

 

A. Do not pursue her. She said she didn't want a relationship. Nothing is worse than trying to persuade someone to being in a relationship with you.

 

B. Ignore her when she starts to pout when you move on with your life. She probably enjoys having a guy fawning over her. To her you are an ego stroke.....but she'll tell you "you're such a good friend"

 

C. Ignoring her and focusing on you will most likely peak her interest.

 

Don't chase after someone who would never think of chasing after you. It should be an even playing ground.

[BiscuitXOXO]

Translation of this block of text:

 

I like this girl, but I've been friend-zoned. But I will try anyways!

 

So when she broke up with her now-xbf, I told her how I felt. She said I was cute sweet blablabla so we went on a date.

 

Kissed.

 

But then girl txted my friend that she "just wanted to be friends." So I confronted her and she said some random bs. She said she needed time to think.

 

Then drama drama drama...Then Facebook drama drama drama...

 

So should I keep pursuing her or just forget about it. [/Quote]

 

Yay high school drama...forget about it ^.^