TragicAlliance Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 It finally happened - I got the courage to do it. My Facebook will NEVER again be polluted by pictures and messages that make me upset. I'm free! At last! I'm finally on my way. I'm happy. =)
Good Arms Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Congratulations! It's amazing that something as simple as a block (hope you did that) on a stupid website can need such a strong resolve to finally do (I know, as I've been there). It's the right thing to do, well done.
Author TragicAlliance Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 I'm sure that sometime later tonight I'm going to have a "Oh my God, did I really just do this" moment... but it can't hurt any more than when I'd read my news feed and see him lavishing all his pride on something that wasn't me. He never could understand that I wanted him to lavish his pride and love on me... he always justified it with "but my friends don't like you" and "I don't tell people about my personal life and you're my personal life." He'll never understand how badly he hurt me. I realized this when he sent me a "pleasant" email telling me how he was offended at my reactions to his photos. Told me I didn't HAVE to look at them. I realized he was right. So I deleted him. In the end, I'm sorry he couldn't truly love me. But it's time I stop pretending that one day he will.
Layzie89 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 Great job! I cannot stress enough how detrimental facebook is to coping dumpees. Deactivating my facebook is the best thing I've done since my breakup (in terms of coping) and you too will feel the same. Don't ever succumb to your urges to peek if ever they arise which they surely will. Out of sight out of mind. Ignorance is truly bliss!
Author TragicAlliance Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 Thank you all for your encouragement! =) I've since changed my Facebook settings so that it's Friends Only... and I've not had the slightest bit of temptation to go see what he's saying on his. Unfortunately, I know what he's saying over there - nothing. He's probably just posting more of those videos and pictures that used to make me feel so upset. So I'm not going to even take the slightest peek - I don't need that kind of hurt in my life. He chose what was more important in his life - and I'm okay with that. But I wasn't okay with being second-place, and it's time to go find someone who will treat me like I deserve.
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