grimaspectz Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 My girlfriend and I were dating 2 months. It doesn't seem like long but I have never been in so much pain over a break up and I have had plenty. In those two months se got together, got a house and and started building a life. I had never been happier. 3 days before the break up she was talking to me about what her wedding dress would look like when we got married. In that two months we had never had a fight. Out of the blue she texted me she was leaving me and cleared out all of her stuff while I was at work. Wtf! I still love her but she wont even talk to me. I don't understand what I did. I never betrayed her. I kissed her ant told her I loved her from the bottom of my heart every day. I was always nice and respectful and never layed a hand on her like she would tell me her ex's did. How am I worse than that. Is it a fear of commitment? Just didn't like being with a real life good guy? I haven't slept or ate in 4 days. I just can't bring myself to do it. Even after all of this i still want her to come back. I dont know why i do but i do. Please give me some insight.
CandyHeart Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I think you are hurting because she never gave you closure. Sadly I think you just need to try find the closure but if she wont even respond it will be hard to know the reason why she left and you will forever be questioning about it being something you did. Maybe it was something she did, maybe she just got scared, found someone else or was not ready for commitment, you wont know until she opens up and tells you the reasons and gives you the closure you need,
smudge21 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 So sorry to hear this as right now, you're going through hell - you lost someone you love and have no idea why. Sorry, but this girl is evil. Okay, she may have real reasons, but then explain them. There's no excuse. She had time to clear stuff out, but not time to say goodbye and explain why. Pathetic. You my friend need to get close to some friends and family and damn quick too, for right now you're in such a bad place that any contact from her and you'll jump, then before long, she could have you chasing her like a puppy. I'm not saying that will happen, but it could, so now you have to work on healing yourself. Sadly you may never found out the reasons why and that will hurt more then the loss itself. My ex just one day stopped talking to me and things ended even though we had to work together. It was tough and I stupidly never asked why (deep down I knew, so I guess I just didn't want to hear the truth). It's the worse way possible for a relationship to end.
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