hurley21 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 The only sane option for me right now is to look ahead and not dwell on the pain I feel over being dumped by my ex-fiance for the twenty-somethingth time. I've made this list of what I want in the next guy (should he ever come because he may not exist). Regardless, I think everyone should post, it helps optimism and gives hope. I want a guy.... who accepts me for me. I am a control freak and I know it, but it is how I keep all my thoughts/plans/ideas in order. If a guy is secure with himself, I should be able to do my own thing.who is gorgeous (to me) and doesn't know it. I don't like vanity in a partner.who feels that this life is the one shot we get and feels good about taking some risks to see the world and follow his dreams. who is either in the military, or wants to work with the military because I am a veteran and want the same lifestyle.who can look at me and see me as beautiful and not start nit-picking at whatever flaw he can see on my body.who doesn't have anger/temper control issues. Who would never raise his hand at me or say horrible things.who appreciates even the smallest things I do for him.who has sex without being in it only for himself.who gets along well with my familywho DOES NOT want kids- this is not negotiable.to be at my same level of intelligence and sense of humor (dark, tasteless even at times- nothing should be THAT serious)who cares about being in shape, but again without vanitywho is kind to all creatures, doesn't kill for sportwho is tolerable to all religions/ways of life and doesn't try to force his views or values on otherswho is not addicted to any substance I feel this list is pretty much the jist of it. What do you guys want?
Fufu Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I guess mine is pretty simple To love me and to be committed to me no matter what ups and downs we encountered in the journey together.
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