whoknowswhattodo Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I'm still feeling lost without her. I'm still busy with work but am missing her. Still wanting her to come back and start all over again with her. Thinking when will she be back?
Fufu Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 No one knows.. She may or may not come back. Why not start thinking how you can help yourself to feel better than to think of whether or when she will come back?
allie_lgh Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I'm in the middle of a break up (he left me) and have been struggling too. I try and remind myself when I miss him and am wondering if/when he'll come back that it doesn't matter. I need to move on and make myself happy without him. If I do this only good can come from it. If he decides to come back, me being happy on my own and independent in my happiness can only benefit us. If he doesn't come back then I've found a way of life that doesn't need him to move forward. Hope that helps. Keep pushing through <3
MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I'm still feeling lost without her. I'm still busy with work but am missing her. Still wanting her to come back and start all over again with her. Thinking when will she be back? I am so scared of being you in the future. Not to offend you but what I mean is that I am so scared that in weeks from now I will still have hope. Hope for something that is OVER and ended for a reason. There is nothing worse than that. It's not healthy and I'm scared I am on that path as well. Then I think....do they ever come back? and if they do why? They would only come back if they get screwed over by someone else...and they think ohhh so and so provides comfort...they don't come back for real reasons or legit love...
geegirl Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I'm still feeling lost without her. I'm still busy with work but am missing her. Still wanting her to come back and start all over again with her. Thinking when will she be back? It's normal to feel this way. It's only day 22. Your healing doesn't happen overnight. It takes at least a couple of months to start feeling a difference. Unfortunately, the hope is still there for you but as time goes by and the more you realize she is not coming back, the less you will think and dwell about her. Aside from work, what else are you doing to nurture yourself? Starting a workout plan at the gym? Starting a hobby you are passionate about? Taking a class that will require your complete focus and attention? Enrolling in a volunteer program for the under privileged -- puts perspective on life? Reading self help books that motivate? If you are spiritual, get yourself back to your faith?
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