turokturok5 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I was dumped after 2 months for being too clingy, not a long relationship but i got really attached (hence the reason i was dumped.) Been 3 months since then, i can now walk around with my head held high as i go to the gym, play sports, have made new friends at uni and have finally figured out what i want to do with my life so i'm a lot better off than i was when i was in a relationship with her. The only thing is...i keep thinking "if only we could get back together now things would be different" i know i wouldn't be so clingy because i actually have something to live for. Before, whilst in a relationship with her my day would pretty much involve sitting at home playing cod, then talking to her at night and catching up with her whenever the opportunity arose and when she started to cancel plans i started to get insecure and dependant and gave her the ammunition to break my heart. Although i think, i'm still young, (only 18) because of her dumping me i have become a better person, that she wasn't "the one" if she really cared for me she would have stuck around, i'm starting to feel a bit upset again. I keep telling myself she won't come back to me, i mean i was her first boyfriend, when she dumped me she said "i can't go back" when i begged her for a second chance she said "it can't happen" i went from begging, to getting angry to finally going NC and having nothing to do with her in the space of 3 months and she hasn't tried contacting me once so i know she isn't coming back, exept i can't wrap my head around the reality.
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 So in a nutshell, you're still not over her, and you're still clingy.
Fufu Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 You are still so young, why put your life in hold for someone. Even if you are 30, 40, 50 now, I will also say the same thing. Don't put your life in hold for someone who doesn't want to be committed to you. Accept the reality and be glad you did it. Reason being: Not accepting reality is just going to push you further and further away from being real to yourself. Don't put yourself in the past anymore. Move on and look forward.
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