When do guys just give up and settle for a below average girl?And should they?

[93TheHitStick]

LOL, what do you do then, set up lobster traps?

 

I'm 29 years old, I have been approached by two women in my entire life. Both were significantly heavier than I am.

 

Lol. Because when a girl likes you they don't hit on you bro. Its not like us where we kinda make it obvious when we meet them what we want. They want you to notice them and want to ask them out. They don't want to come up to you and be like "hey sexy can i get your number" you gotta watch for the signs. I am sure more then two fat chicks have approached you. You were just to oblivious to notice.

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

I agree that women generally don't ask out men. They should, but they don't.

 

I can't speak womanese, so I generally can't tell if a girl likes me, unless she makes it really obvious.

[djhall]

I I generally can't tell if a girl likes me, unless she makes it really obvious.

And even then... that just reminded me of a birthday dinner out with my then-several-year-long-girlfriend and her entire extended familly. I was seated at the end of the table somewhat by myself and when the waitress came and found out it was my birthday she was extra attentive, spent quite a bit of time chatting with me about my order, asked me how old I was, leaned in close to point out things on the menu, touched my arm or shoulder when retrieving my menu or refilling my glass. I thought she was an extra nice and hardworking waiter making the birthday boy feel special... her mom and sisters and in-laws were outraged at the two of us blatantly flirting in front of her and her family.... I had no clue... and thankfully my girlfriend thought it was hilarious since she could clearly tell I had absolutely no idea what was really going on.

[thatdog]

And even then... that just reminded me of a birthday dinner out with my then-several-year-long-girlfriend and her entire extended familly. I was seated at the end of the table somewhat by myself and when the waitress came and found out it was my birthday she was extra attentive, spent quite a bit of time chatting with me about my order, asked me how old I was, leaned in close to point out things on the menu, touched my arm or shoulder when retrieving my menu or refilling my glass. I thought she was an extra nice and hardworking waiter making the birthday boy feel special... her mom and sisters and in-laws were outraged at the two of us blatantly flirting in front of her and her family.... I had no clue... and thankfully my girlfriend thought it was hilarious since she could clearly tell I had absolutely no idea what was really going on.

 

LOL. Yeah this used to happen to me a lot. Dinner with the family then my mum/sister would ask I got the waitress' number. I'd be like wtf???

'oh yeah you guys have been flirting all night. It's so obvious'.