Facebook boundaries! Thank you new technology for making it even more complicated!

[CanadianGirl83]

Update:

 

He ended up adjusting his facebook settings so that she can't see or reply to his.

 

Weird twist was:

 

on this weekend a guy propositioned me at a party with the qualification to wait for my boyfriend to leave the room.

I immediately told him.

 

My shock is the complete lack of reaction. He just says the guy is pathetic and no threat to him.

 

I don't expect him to do ANYTHING, but some discontent to the other guy's actions?

[jnj express]

Your BF--is the one who is pathetic-----he flirts, and he has no reaction---to you getting propositioned------this is not someone that you wanna be in a relationship with---

 

Plus you go out with single guys on coffee dates, which you see as OK---but you don't like your BF---flirting

 

The 2 of you need to find out what relationships are REALLY all about

 

I am willing to bet, and I AM a betting person---if you two hook-up you will both cheat on each other

[Fedor]

Look, if you cant compromise about something as little as Facebook then maybe you two should evaluate why you both are together in the 1st place.

[Treetops1969]

Jealousy is not a measure of love, its a measure of insecurity. he has adjusted his fb settings out of respect for you.

 

Leave it at that and good luck

[TokyoG33kyGal]

when i read the first few posts, i was actually agreeing with you except for expecting him to react about the guy who propositioned you in a party. he already changed his facebook settings for you, so i think that is already a compromise.

 

however, you may wanna discuss your boundaries as a whole.