LoveBug1989 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I'm still hurting from my breakup, and feeling steadily worse and more depressed, just trying to get over him. I'm at the point again where I cry if I start to dwell on him too much. There's a friend of mine on WoW who has a crush on me and recently got out of a relationship. We've been talking about how we've been dealing with our breakups and how difficult it is at times. Recently, he discussed wanting to meet with me and another one of our WoW friends in TX, we'd both have to travel a bit to go see them (I would be in CA, he in Louisiana). I told him that I know he was crushing on me but I wanted to hold off on dating for a while until I healed more significantly from my ex. He understood and agreed and said he wanted to get to know me as a friend first, but if something developed or didn't develop, that would be fine. I don't know why I am so terrified. I am hurting so badly over my ex but I know that meeting new people, friends, helps ease the pain. I guess I am scared that this guy will reel me in too quickly like my ex did, because he was offering me the option to stay at his house, which I don't like. I don't want the trip to meet friends to be just about "me", but about meeting each other and making new friends. I don't know how to approach this. I do think he's attractive, but I'm not crushing on him like he is on me. He's also black, which is a new thing to me (I'm not experienced in dating, as I've only had 1 boyfriend). I'm just confused and I don't understand why I am so scared about meeting people. Can anyone help me?
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