Country_Girl Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 So, I would say my coffee date last Wednesday was a success, we ended up chatting for 2.5 hours. There were never any awkward moments of silence, the conversation seemed to flow without effort. We greeted with a hug, and he also hugged me goodbye at the end of the night. During the date we commented on a terrible horror movie that we both agreed was 2 hours wasted of our lives. 30 minutes after the date he texted to say he really enjoyed our talk. The next day I texted him saying I hoped he got the job he auditioned for (he was waiting on a call back that day) and he said thanks. Then he texted that we should rent that terrible movie. So, we have plans to rent a movie and have pizza at his place on Saturday. Now, where I originally met him at the bar- he was drinking ice tea. When we went out for coffee and desert, he was drinking ice tea that night too. Do you think I should pick up some popcorn and ice tea for our date? Or will it seem creepy that for some reason I paid attention to his beverage of choice?
SmileFace Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 No, but you shouldn't go to his house on a second date.
djhall Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 No, but you shouldn't go to his house on a second date. Or bring condoms.... they are always a thoughtful and appreciated second date gift! :lmao:
sanskrit Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Agree with smileface, but if you do anyway, and bring tea, make sure it's Long Island Iced Tea.
SmileFace Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Proves my point. Unless you are bring condoms and liquor. Do not go to his on a second date. If it was a friend that you started dating ... maybe. In this situation... NaY!
Author Country_Girl Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 I know what you guys are thinking, but I promise it's not like that. He is not looking to hook up. I would be surprised if we even end up kissing- I can tell he is taking things slow. He's pretty spiritual, not bible thumping, but the type that meets with a spiritual adviser for direction in life and goes to church on Sundays. No, I'm not bringing condoms because that is not going to happen. And I don't think he drinks alcohol, so nay on the long islands.
Lucky_One Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 How about not worry about the tea part, but take popcorn and an assortment of movie candy (Jr Mints, Raisinettes, stuff like that). If he is a constant tea drinker, he probably already has a pitcher of it at his house. Besides, it is a personal requirement of mine to drink Coke with popcorn at a movie. Have fun!
Star Gazer Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 I know what you guys are thinking, but I promise it's not like that. He is not looking to hook up. YOU are sending him a sign that you'd be okay with it, just by going over there on a second date. What's wrong with a "normal" date?
patagonia Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 heck i met a girl a few weeks ago, knew her for about 24 hrs...she left me a flower on my car before our date. I think it would be very sweet if a woman brought over my beverage of choice. Condoms? Nooooooooo, now that's weird!
Author Country_Girl Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 YOU are sending him a sign that you'd be okay with it, just by going over there on a second date. What's wrong with a "normal" date? I don't believe I am sending him the wrong signal. I have had several friends go on dates to the other person's house for a home cooked meal, as a second or third date. Nothing happened with them and nothing was expected of them. I will post a follow up on if he tried anything, but I know that will not be the case.
musemaj11 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Do you think I should pick up some popcorn and ice tea for our date? Or will it seem creepy that for some reason I paid attention to his beverage of choice? Thats not creepy. Thats sweet that you notice things about him. However, I dont think you should bring him iced tea. Either he already has some at home or its just something that he always orders when he goes out. Just bring food.
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