snowww43 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I was completely head over heels for this guy and i did everything in my power to make him happy. He needed a place to live so I picked up everything and found a house for us with some roommates(keep in mind that I'm only 17), i spent pretty much all of my money on him because he didn't have a job, i drove him wherever he needed to go, and I just straight up did EVERYTHING for him, and we weren't even together. we dated for about a week and then decided to stay best friends instead, but we still had sex, kissed, held hands, etc.. I waited nine months for him to get out of jail just so i could be around him. I love the way we played, kissed, cuddled, and spent our time just not worrying about anything. But after a couple of months in our new house he started picking fights with me, and wouldn't let me even speak to my best friend anymore. It got worse and worse, to the point that it was almost everyday fighting, and it was bad. He punched holes through the walls, throwing my stuff outside, threatening to get rid of my cat, and just outrageous things like that. I was almost done with all of it until he made me a deal. "Call Stacy(my best friend) and tell her you can never talk to her again, and I'll stay and things will get better." So I did it. It was the most horrible and heartbreaking thing I've ever had to do, but he was right, things with us got a lot better and we were getting along again. But then my birthday came along, and he got really drunk and sh*t just hit the fan, and we were back to the way it had been. Things calmed down for a couple of days but then we were watching a movie together all cuddled up and happy, and my friend texted me telling me that she didn't like him. He saw this text, took my phone, broke it, and then proceeded to pack all of his things and told me to take him home. So I did. It's only been a day, and when we got in that fight I called up my Aunt in Minnesota and asked her if I could stay with her for awhile, and now tomorrow I'm getting on a plane and leaving Texas.. He called me last night and told me to meet him in his backyard so he could say bye to me, and I went. It was the most painful thing ever, because we just talked about everything and thought about when we were happy, and we were both crying and then I had to go, but I told him I'd be back today to give him one last goodbye, and he agreed to see me. But when I got there, he opened the door and simply said, "good bye and good riddance" with the most disgusting, hatred filled look and voice, and then he shut the door and locked it. I'm just so upset, I don't understand why this happened, why he treated me the way he did, and I have no idea how the hell I'm going to manage getting over this one.. Please help, I need advice.
JasonRules Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Please help, I need advice. Date men who have jobs, are actually in a relationship with you, and who aren't thrown in prison.
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