Jump to content

We are on a break? Do I break the NC rule in this rare instance?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

My girlfriend and I are on a break and we have not spoken in about a week. Her college graduation is this weekend (she uninvited me) and I was curious as to what I should do?

 

Should I break NC and send her flowers to tell her I am proud of her and congrats? or do I not send anything? Her entire family and friends will be there so I am curious as to what to do.

 

Any advice is appreciated.

Posted

Who initiated the break? Do you think it is likely that you guys will get back together? She uninvited you - was this because you wanted the break? If that's the case then I can see her reasoning and I think flowers would just confuse her. If she doesn't want you there then she shouldn't care about flowers or gifts from you.

Posted

There is no such thing as a "break" in a relationship. There are breakups. You are broken up. Treat this situation like any other breakup and move on.

×
×
  • Create New...