irc333 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Okay, I've been chatting with a lady through FB that I know through other friends from other gatherings. She mentioned she is into the outdoors, but never have anyone to go join her for any outdoor activities. I asked her if the next time, perhaps her and I can get together to go out like kayaking or hiking. She said, "Sure, I can appreciate a new friend". Was this her way of FZ'ing me? or is just her being defensive, and perhaps something more will come of this?
Professor X Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 What did you expect her to say? "Sure, I can appreciate a new lover" "Sure, I can appreciate a new sex toy" "Sure, I can appreciate a new slave" "Sure, I can appreciate a new [insert idea here]"
fwang Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 what did you expect her to say? "sure, i can appreciate a new lover" "sure, i can appreciate a new sex toy" "sure, i can appreciate a new slave" "sure, i can appreciate a new [insert idea here]" lmao.........
jerbear Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Who knows and you got a meeting out of her, from there you two will find out if there is chemistry; she'll call you. If not don't worry, you got a new friend and go find someone else.
fishtaco Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Not sure if you've been friendzoned, since it seems like two don't really know each other. But it's not a good sign. You have an uphill battle if you want to start anything romantic with this one. She could have said, sure, it's always more fun with company, as opposed to "new friend". That's a big hint. Even if there's no friendzoning yet, that's a guard wall you'll have to get past.
SmileFace Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Isn't friend zone when a women actually knows you are pursuing her and she only sees you as a friend. Then continues to date you but only emotionally or whatever the hell guys say women do on here? Is this women suppose to assume every guy who talks to her is pursuing her? You lucky you got that far. Now pursue
fishtaco Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Isn't friend zone when a women actually knows you are pursuing her and she only sees you as a friend. Then continues to date you but only emotionally or whatever the hell guys say women do on here? Is this women suppose to assume every guy who talks to her is pursuing her? You lucky you got that far. Now pursue No, friendzone simply means the woman does not dislike the guy, she may even like the guy and enjoy his company, but have placed him in the will not date category.
WillSingForFood Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I think that she isn't interested, and that's why she wanted to make it clear that you are only going to be viewed as a "friend" to her. But I still think you have a shot at it, since nothing's happened thus far. Go for it.
sanskrit Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Wouldn't give it a second thought. Some people might have the attitude that setting dates via FB is cheezy yet setting outings with "friends" is cool. Some women have an attitude "friends first" which doesn't mean anything. Some women have control issues and feel they have to "dictate the terms" of any social engagement despite that it doesn't change the outcome one iota. She could have her eye on someone this week, but that doesn't mean next week (or the next ten minutes) will be the same. Who knows, just proceed to have fun as usual.
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