jordkorn Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I phoned my ex last week to tell her I needed to clear the air on some things. She cheated on me twice so I had feelings built up inside and told her how I felt. I told her she was like her dad because her dad cheated and she always told me she hated her dad. After all this she then tells me it could have worked out she just needed time to figure her life out. I said to her once a cheat always a cheat and she said how did I know that. Then a day later she had the nerve to tell me I hurt her feelings. What is up with that? She never apologized or said she was sorry to me for what she did. I still have feelings for her it has only been a month since the breakup.
Exit Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 People like that are perfectly comfortable putting the blame on you to make themselves feel better. You may have the most valid points in the world, and you finally work up the nerve to tell them the truth, and their only reaction is "well now that you unloaded on me like that, I just want you to know that I was thinking this still could have worked out". They do it to make you look like the bad guy. Don't let her get in your head like that, you aren't the bad guy, you aren't the cheater. Besides, if you believe once a cheater always a cheater, and she already did it TWICE, then you should be able to stop talking to her and just let this one go. There is nothing more you need to say to her and no reaction you get from her is going to help you in any way.
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