Author one goal Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 Anyone who doesn't think Katharine McPhee is hot must be gay. I met her before and she's even better looking in person than in this photo! http://www.katharine-pictures.org/displayimage.php?album=494&pos=13
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 I don't think she's hot and I'm not gay ... But please, leave it. I think your K. McP days have run their course.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 She's hot, but would she want to date YOU? That's the question. Oh, and I flirted with her a bit. She then revealed her fiance, and showed me her ring. So I knew she was unavailable. Unlike you, though, we're still on good terms.
Author one goal Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 She's hot, but would she want to date YOU? That's the question. Oh, and I flirted with her a bit. She then revealed her fiance, and showed me her ring. So I knew she was unavailable. Unlike you, though, we're still on good terms. Well the teach was single.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 19, 2011 Posted May 19, 2011 Well the teach was single. 1. Not interested = unavailable 2. unavailable = move on to next girl 3. move on to next girl = don't ask out that girl again It's a three step program. Memorize it.
Author one goal Posted May 19, 2011 Author Posted May 19, 2011 I posted another thread today asking where at the university I can meet hot girls. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t278756/
Author one goal Posted May 20, 2011 Author Posted May 20, 2011 Came across this good article. However according to this it is not a good idea for teachers to be friends with students. However my teacher was friends with a lot of her students so in a way she is making a mistake according to this article. http://www.helium.com/items/1540400-flirting-professors-student-and-teacher-relationships-sexual-favors-college-inappropriate If a male student has a crush on a female professor, looking at her as "experienced", it can be detrimental, with her reporting his behavior as sexual harassment to the university, even though he is a student.
Eclypse Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 I'll be honest with you, she is fxcking hot! I'd definetely bone her However you gotta understand there's other hot chicks. No need to fixate on someone specific. The uni is full of hot people.
Trimmer Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 (edited) I thought MrLonelyOne was just countering the accusation that OneGoal is a pervert. If that's the case then I agree with MrLonelyOne. OneGoal definitely comes over as creepy and stalkerish and describes unacceptable behaviour of an obsessive nature, but I don't think he's told us anything that would make me describe him as a pervert. Fair enough, and a re-reading of MrLonelyOne's's posts does support this. However, it was you, and OutLadyIsWatching who were actually throwing fuel on the flames: She's using it as an invitation because she can't be direct in how she feels. I can't believe one goal hasn't won over his beloved yet. He needs to stop playing footsie and get in there. You know you didn't really deserve an A, so this just proves that she has the hots for you. Given your other posts, it's pretty clear that you were being sarcastic; with OLiW, I'm not so sure. Either way, sarcastic humor is fine when your target gets the sarcasm. In this case, with the OP having a demonstrated history of being oblivious to social norms that the rest of us take for granted, and for distorting and misinterpreting external cues in a way that supports his disordered thought process, it is just irresponsible - and yes, even creepy - to encourage him, even "sarcastically." People love to throw around the pervert label. Especially women. Maybe I'm missing all the sarcasm today, but weren't you the one who first injected it into this part of the thread? Don't lead this guy on. He's a sick and creepy pervert. Edited May 20, 2011 by Trimmer
Trimmer Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 Came across this good article. However according to this it is not a good idea for teachers to be friends with students. However my teacher was friends with a lot of her students so in a way she is making a mistake according to this article. http://www.helium.com/items/1540400-flirting-professors-student-and-teacher-relationships-sexual-favors-college-inappropriate If a male student has a crush on a female professor, looking at her as "experienced", it can be detrimental, with her reporting his behavior as sexual harassment to the university, even though he is a student. Yeah, does that sound familiar at all? Also I'll point out that the overwhelming thrust of this article, right from the start is what a student should and shouldn't do: "Inappropriate relationships can start from friendships, which students shouldn't really have with their professors." It actually does a decent job of assuming that students are adults, responsible for their own behavior and making decisions in their own best interest. Yet, the main point you say you got from the article is that you believe your teacher was doing something wrong by being "friends" with other students. Does this article also show you that, regardless of her reaction or her behavior with other students, your pursuit of her was (1) not a good idea, and (2) all your responsibility?
anne1707 Posted May 20, 2011 Posted May 20, 2011 What's the worst that could happen? She gets some sex she didn't know she wanted. I think that is known as rape
Author one goal Posted May 20, 2011 Author Posted May 20, 2011 Yeah, does that sound familiar at all? Also I'll point out that the overwhelming thrust of this article, right from the start is what a student should and shouldn't do: "Inappropriate relationships can start from friendships, which students shouldn't really have with their professors." It actually does a decent job of assuming that students are adults, responsible for their own behavior and making decisions in their own best interest. Yet, the main point you say you got from the article is that you believe your teacher was doing something wrong by being "friends" with other students. Does this article also show you that, regardless of her reaction or her behavior with other students, your pursuit of her was (1) not a good idea, and (2) all your responsibility? Yea it wasn't a good idea.
Author one goal Posted May 21, 2011 Author Posted May 21, 2011 Well I don't have a girlfriend which caused me to be more persistant and go all out on her. I really want a girlfriend and get to score. I want a gf badly so thats why i get so persistant.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Well I don't have a girlfriend which caused me to be more persistant and go all out on her. I really want a girlfriend and get to score. I want a gf badly so thats why i get so persistant. Uh, there are lots of guys on here, me included, that don't have girlfriends. We don't get all obsessive like.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 ^^That is actually a pretty good point. One goal will one day "obsessively" "creepily" "pervertedly" do the unthinkable thing of talking to a woman and you know what... she won't think it's obsessive, creepy or perverted she'll like him. The thing is these days a woman will brand a man as one of the above for talking to her if he's not hot enough to her.
utterer of lies Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 The thing is these days a woman will brand a man as one of the above for talking to her if he's not hot enough to her. Have you been called a stalker before, lonelyone? That might explain your excuses and your sympathy for one goal...
Mrlonelyone Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Have you been called a stalker before, lonelyone? That might explain your excuses and your sympathy for one goal... Once in highschool a girl I was in a class with called me a stalker (to the point of the police investigating it).... essentially because I ended up being in the same room she was in at the same time every day... the freaking class we were both in. It turned out it was she who was going out of her way to be around me. It's called false victimization syndrome. It's usually not clinical as the "false victim" does not go to great extent to convince people they are being stalked. While I don't agree with black dog's comments on beatings... he certainly sees what I mean about some women these days.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted May 21, 2011 Posted May 21, 2011 Yet you don't even try pursuing women either. At least he tried. Wrong. I ask out girls, or I try to feel out how they feel about me. Once I learn a woman is married, engaged, or emotionally unavailable, I stop. I don't stalk women.
Author one goal Posted May 22, 2011 Author Posted May 22, 2011 Wrong. I ask out girls, or I try to feel out how they feel about me. Once I learn a woman is married, engaged, or emotionally unavailable, I stop. I don't stalk women. Well the teacher was single so i figured that she was avalible.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 It's pretty clear that people who engage in stalkerish behavior are in absolute denial about what they're doing.
oaks Posted May 23, 2011 Posted May 23, 2011 Given your other posts, it's pretty clear that you were being sarcastic; with OLiW, I'm not so sure. Either way, sarcastic humor is fine when your target gets the sarcasm. In this case, with the OP having a demonstrated history of being oblivious to social norms that the rest of us take for granted, and for distorting and misinterpreting external cues in a way that supports his disordered thought process, it is just irresponsible - and yes, even creepy - to encourage him, even "sarcastically." Oh well. My bad.
heads_up_guys Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt1404.html http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/postt1139.html http://forums.officer.com/forums/showthread.php?42602-Do-police-reports-go-on-your-record http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56179/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56885/
oaks Posted May 25, 2011 Posted May 25, 2011 Those threads seem to have been posted by someone who sounds uncannily like One Goal. It's like he has a twin!
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