Sugarkane Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 After callously and aggressively dumping me. There was no reason for that at all. He always makes sure that he's the dumper and jumps from woman to woman. I just want someone to leave him in the place where he left me one day.
Kodo Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 After callously and aggressively dumping me. There was no reason for that at all. He always makes sure that he's the dumper and jumps from woman to woman. I just want someone to leave him in the place where he left me one day. Does he really need to? If he's jumping from woman to woman.. sounds like he can only achieve temporary happiness.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 3, 2011 Author Posted May 3, 2011 I was a good gf and never cheated. He dumped me out of the blue. His lasts words to me were "I should've dumped oy a long time ago". Great way to end things hey?
Kodo Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I was a good gf and never cheated. He dumped me out of the blue. His lasts words to me were "I should've dumped oy a long time ago". Great way to end things hey? I wish I could say something to help. The best I can do is offer to listen and help you talk about it. Some people just don't recognise the good things you do or intend. They want things in a very specific way and if they don't get it they treat you in such a negative way.
Fufu Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I think the best thing you do to yourself is to realize that he's not the man you want to walk the journey together with. As long as we never do anything against with our conscience, we just continue to live with our life.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 I'm sick of doing everything right. I took the high road, but still got called crazy, even though I never contacted him, not even once. What was the point? I don't know why he was hostile. I deserved to be angry
Author Sugarkane Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 I regret never sending my ex a letter. I never got to say anything, as he didn't even have the decency to talk to me. I got completely cut off. I never got anything off my chest at all. It doesn't matter what I say, its highly unlikely I'm ever going to run into him. And he poisoned everyone against me, so we don't have any mutual friends anymore.
nana841121 Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 shallow person he is. Lucky for you to get rid of him. it doesn't matter who dumped whom. the most important thing is this disaster is out of your life. i believe in karma though.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 4, 2011 Author Posted May 4, 2011 Does anyone think the letter is a good idea? I feel like I should be over this by now. I was going through stuff the other day and found some mememtos from our relationship, by accident. I feel like it set me back again. I threw the stuff in the garbage, where it belongs. Also having another assclown ex contact me and feed me breadcrumbs has got me thinking again. I wish I could be a person who jumps from relationship to relationship, but I can't do that.
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 How about taking out an ad in the local press? make sure there is nothing libellous, and then tell the world what he did. Someone tried suing their ex in court for doing the same thing. It got thrown out, because (a) the statements were factual and (b) the "advert" made it quite clear this was her opinion of him. They can't sue you for an opinion..... You could change your name to protect your innocence.... deny, deny deny......
Author Sugarkane Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 TaraMaiden- It wouldn't be worth it taking my ex to court. I can think better ways to spend my cash, than anything remotely to do with him.
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 No, I mean him trying to take you to court for the full-page, full-colour advert telling everyone what a no good loser-jerk he is.... He wouldn't have a leg to stand on. But don't worry. I'm sure that this, like everything else, shall also pass......
Flgirl44 Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 After callously and aggressively dumping me. There was no reason for that at all. He always makes sure that he's the dumper and jumps from woman to woman. I just want someone to leave him in the place where he left me one day. I felt very vindictive after my relationship ended similarly, but I came to realize as I long for real love that I am in a better position to have it than he is. He doesn't know how to provide what true love encompasses for someone else because he is too selfish. He will always be selling himself short. Sometimes they are too ignorant to care either way but it will bleed out into other aspects of their life because they settle and are unaware that their definition of love is very short sighted, shallow and not firmly rooted in anything secure or stable. Sort of like the person who brings bad upon themselves but can't seem to look inward as to why that would happen, you just look on and hope they figure it out someday, but in the meantime feel a bit of sadness for them.
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