fordpowerstroke7.3 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 First off, the girl in question is 17 and I'm 18. We had dated for 5 months, but broke up because her dad felt she needed to spend more time on homework than boys. We were really good together. We never had a real argument and respected each other. In fact, she is a virgin, and I respect that. The most we did was make out; I never wanted her to feel uncomfortable. After 2 months of being broke up, and letting her go to prom with one of her guy friends, her friends started telling me she wanted me back. Frankly, I want her back too. So, last week we started talk on the phone and texting A LOT:) I know that usually you should move on from an ex, but this relationship is different. We didn't break up on bad terms. My question is, should I follow my heart and try round two with her? I really like her
ramathorne Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I would say yes. You're both still young! Don't rush into anything, and try reading lots of posts on this forum. There is an unbelievable amount of knowledge and experience available here. If I had of known about this forum at your age I would be a damn expert by now! Good Luck!
Layzie89 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Seeing as there was no real reason as to why you two broke up other than her father seperating you from each other (cheating, arguments, gigs) I say why not give it another try? You should however take the time to meet with her father to talk and let him know thatyou're intentions are good and that you understand her schoolwork comes first before the relationship. Doing so will allow her dad to feel comfortable with her dating you and there won't be that extra stress on the relationship.
Author fordpowerstroke7.3 Posted May 3, 2011 Author Posted May 3, 2011 Seeing as there was no real reason as to why you two broke up other than her father seperating you from each other (cheating, arguments, gigs) I say why not give it another try? You should however take the time to meet with her father to talk and let him know thatyou're intentions are good and that you understand her schoolwork comes first before the relationship. Doing so will allow her dad to feel comfortable with her dating you and there won't be that extra stress on the relationship. I've met with her father. I'm pretty confident that he knows that I'm a good kid. She has had some rocky relationships prior to me, so I think he is a little on edge about her with boys period. If you haven't noticed, high school kids are pretty irresponsible, selfish, and immature for the most part...
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