confused1989 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Well i was at about 1 month of NC, haven't been looking at her facebook profile or anything, and ignore her messages. i am finding it hard, because although I have come a long way I am still hung up on her, definitely not ready to date and can't see any other girls the same right now. I'm 22, I have a bunch of threads made describing my situation, basically I thought things were good and we planned a trip to hawaii but a month after we book she gets pneumonia and I take care of her for a month then she gets better and accuses me of not caring, I find her on a dating site, ask her about it, she lies, then all of a sudden doesn't feel the same. I chase her for 2 months and get my heart broken over and over, she told me all I had to do was prove my love, it was never enough. Anyway she manipulated me and made me stroke her ego while she repeatedly shut me down. Anytime she felt like she was losing me she would try and haul me back in, then when she had me she would spit me out again, it sucked. There was also times in our relationship when she grinded on other guys at the bar, although she did stop this after a while (to my knowledge anyway, but cant be 100% sure) and her partying was always an issue and her excessive drinking. Anyway........... the reason I'm posting is because I still feel terrible sometimes about ignoring her, although she has caused me so much pain and misery. I don't know why but I hate ignoring people. She text me from hawaii (she's been there for 8 days now on what was supposed to be "our" trip) and said "hi hi hi!!! just wanted to say hello I hope things are going well with you." She will always text me stuff like that, or text me things like "congrats on ________" or something along those lines. All of her texts I could just reply with "thanks", but should I just stick to NC? My head is in the fog lately, sometimes I need someone to keep me on track.
Author confused1989 Posted May 3, 2011 Author Posted May 3, 2011 but on a positive note she has been there for over a week now and I haven't been obsessing about what she's been doing, and it has not been hurting as much as I thought it would, although it does sting a little from time to time. I am still able to get on with my life normally. I guess I just anticipated and prepared for it for months now.
TheLoneSock Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 You sir, need some self respect. You feel terrible about not lapping up the breadcrumbs dropped by a girl who treated you terribly? Insane.
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