Illiandra Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 My x and i broke up at the end of february,,, saw each other once in march. he finally changed his facebook status to single (about damn time, i set mine to private because i wanted him to grow a pair of balls and change it him damn self) after he changed his status on face book to single he texts me,,, hi how are you doing i just wanted to tell you that i think about you alot. i waited 2 days to respond to him and said things are great and im busy with stuff he then responded within 1 hour that hes glad to hear im doing well. wtf... would make him text me after 6 weeks of no contact...???
missconfused83 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 he misses you... he wants to see if you miss him... he wants to know if you've moved on before he has. those are my 3 guesses and believe me showing him you're doing good without him will only make him contact you again very soon! if you dont want to be his friend or get back together let him know to stop wasting his time but if you can manage either of those then be cordial and take your time, see what happens
Fufu Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 From my personal opinion, I would very much ignore his contact. Though, you have responded it's fine. reason being, if he truly misses you and wants to reconnect with you, he will do more than once just facebook message him. In the meantime, stick on to your NC. If he really wants you again, he will do more than that. The issue about breaking NC is that we tend to over think that our exes contact us mean that there is a chance they want us back. However, we will never know why our exes contact us again because we are not them. What we think may not be what they think. Maintain your NC.
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