selena_cat Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Hi Everyone, And don't forget my fave Caliguy! They are usually on these Second Chances or Coping Threads giving good advice,just havent read anything from them in a bit. So hope they are doing well,didnt know which thread I should post it on. Gracias!
MidnightinMadrid Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 (edited) LS seems to have lost some good members who gave very good advice. The thing is to appreciate all the support one can get here. I love Caliguy's NC guide,believe me I memorized it by heart,even if it can be hard to stck to it. Dont worry they may show up someday,its hard to keep totally away from this site. Edited May 3, 2011 by MidnightinMadrid
CaliGuy Posted May 6, 2011 Posted May 6, 2011 Hi Everyone, And don't forget my fave Caliguy! They are usually on these Second Chances or Coping Threads giving good advice,just havent read anything from them in a bit. So hope they are doing well,didnt know which thread I should post it on. Gracias! Just getting adjusted to VA and settling in. Been very busy at work and I haven't even thought about meeting anyone (female) at all. Just buried and there are a lot of things to see. Going to the Air and Space Museum on Sat!
Shatter3d Posted May 17, 2011 Posted May 17, 2011 Hi Selena_cat I'm here... Been lurking a bit. Thankyou for the lovely compliment , I always hoped I gave out good solid advice. Well as for me it's been over 60 days NC with my ex. I have absolutely no desire to contact him whatsoever ! It's his b'day today, and I won't be wishing him a happy b'day msg... He resurfaced on FB and I instantly de-friended abd blocked him. I must say that ignorance really is bliss. I was in a very dark lonely place a couple of months ago, but now .. I'm at peace. I am happy being on my own, I'm excited to get to know myself more and really tackle some projects that I have always put off. This is now all about ME, and Im just so happy to explore my own life and grow as a person. I realise what my flaws were/are and I'm going to work on those but I also realise that my true love will love me and accept me for who I am, flaws and all. I don't regret the time I spent with my ex. I learnt some very valuable lessons, and I have grown so much stronger as a person. I will no longer be anyone's doormat. I do still have feelings for the ex, but I am strong enough now that if he ever came back and asked for another chance I would say no thanks! I don't even want to be his friend.. There is no point , I don't need extra complications in my life. I'm so proud of myself, I've come from a very dark place to a very positive place and I must say thankyou to each and every person here on LS, especially IfIKnewThen and Flow. At the end of the day, if someone wants to walk away and throw our love away then they are not worth an ounce of our time.. at first we don't realise this, but time puts things into perspective and makes everything so much clearer. We all need to believe in ourselves and know our self worth... love yourself, walk away with your head held high and your dignity in tact, in time that broken heart will be healed. It really is only temporary. Time heals all wounds, even yours.
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