chris1987 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 about 3 months ago my ex or 6 years moved out. She said she want to start over with me but she was really having sex with a other guy. She forgot her phone at my house thats how I found out about it. I called her out on it on it. After a few days she told me that she was having sex with him and it was just sex but it was over with him because he told her he wanted to have sex with her friend. This guy went to a trip and she started having sex with me again but when he came back she wouldn't any more. My question is should I tell the other guy he is being played and what we did when he was gone? I feel pissed, used, and played! I saw her feeding him dinner the other day. Watching that made me sick. I want revenge. But and other part of me says I should be a bigger man and walk away. What should I do.
poorguy Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 about 3 months ago my ex or 6 years moved out. She said she want to start over with me but she was really having sex with a other guy. She forgot her phone at my house thats how I found out about it. I called her out on it on it. After a few days she told me that she was having sex with him and it was just sex but it was over with him because he told her he wanted to have sex with her friend. This guy went to a trip and she started having sex with me again but when he came back she wouldn't any more. My question is should I tell the other guy he is being played and what we did when he was gone? I feel pissed, used, and played! I saw her feeding him dinner the other day. Watching that made me sick. I want revenge. But and other part of me says I should be a bigger man and walk away. What should I do. The best revenge in the world is to disappear and live your life well. Walk away, chin up...give it some time and it feels amazing
arbrne_vet Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 ok, this is what you do.... Find out where this guy lives...... Call every contractor in the phone book. carpenter, heating and air conditioning, plumber, etc. tell each of them that you have a project, and you need a bid. tell them, next wednesday at noon...... at this guys house. then... a couple days before, you call the pizza place and order 60 pizzas to be delivered at this guys house, next wednesday, at noon..... then you call the news media, and tell them "something big" is going to be happening at this guys house, at noon, next wednesday. you don't know what it is, but they should be there. then.... 5 minutes before noon, you call 911..... ok, now you should be laughing your ass off!!! The best revenge.... Is living well!!!!
missconfused83 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 i dont think you need to even consider getting revenge on this girl because it seems like this other dude gonna do it for you! he obviously dosent have strong feelings for her if he told her he wants to sleep with her friend so live your life happily knowing that in the end she will get whats coming to her... a broken heart just like yours! and PLEASE i beg you; when she comes crawling back after that guy hurts her DO NOT give her the time of day!!!
coltsfan1 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 never revenge just walk. Be angry yes she is a confused slag, but don't take revenge its low. Her life will be bad enough a guilty mind is a very unpleasant place to live!!
makelemonade1974 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 If you can figure out a way to get revenge without 1) breaking the law 2) making it obvious that it was you who orchestrated it 3) not causing serious bodily harm please please please let me know. General humiliation of some sort would be fine with me.
Author chris1987 Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 I was just going to tell the guy she has been doing me too.
Kilty Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 The best revenge is finding someone else and being happy .................
Survivor12 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 "he told her he wanted to have sex with her friend." "I was just going to tell the guy she has been doing me too." And you really think he's going to care??? C'mon. Think! He didn't care that he was sharing her when he was screwing her behind your back now did he? Please don't humiliate yourself by setting yourself up for him to laugh in your face. He doesn't care about her and even less about you. Like others have said, the best revenge is to live well so walk away with your self-respect.
Author chris1987 Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 I wanted to walk away but my friends say I should do this. but I know its time to walk away
poorguy Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Chris your friends have nothing invested. Come on dude..a real man walks away dignified. Its tough to wrap your head around that now, I know, but we just do. Dont do that to her. Please dont. Long term or short term for that matter you wont feel any better I have to say it....Lemonade you be crazy lol...im sorry I wont do that again...I think
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