Yellowbug Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Here's my issue in a nutshell: -I left my Ex BF about 1 1/2 years ago -We had NC until January 2011 -Ran into him at work function this January 2011 -Per his request, we met for coffee a few weeks later. We caught up on life. He is in a new 9 month relationship, new job, and things are going well. He spoke highly of his new relationship, and I told him that I was very happy for him, and proud of him for making great changes. -Ever since, he has been in contact via text with good morning texts, have a good day texts, weather condition texts, when will you be in the area texts, etc. -I have been very cordial with my responses as a friend would be with another friend. I never reveal too much, and I keep the conversation light. I have never initiated contact. -Just last week, he asked me to an early dinner, so I said that would be okay. During the dinner, I made it a point to ask about his girlfriend because I did NOT want to act like she didn't exist. Well, his tone changed this time versus the 1st meeting in regards to his girlfriend. He started revealing things that just didn't seem right, and he said that there's too much drama. I told him to just have a little faith, and tell her about the things that make him uncomfortable. Also, I told him to stop being paranoid and give the girl a little credit. THat was it. After we spoke, he hugged me by my car and then he kissed me hard. I didn't pull away fast, but after I told him that I could not do that because I have respect for his new relationship. He apologized and that was it. So, WHAT THE HECK DOES HE WANT FROM ME???? I don't want to cut all contact again because it's easier to be cordial and friendly versus pretending my ex never existed . . . It's just really confusing . . .
WiselyNaive Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 sounds as though he needs a back up....his relationship is failing...and he wants to move from her to you... thats how i see it
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