nama Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 ...ask someone out or let them know I'm interested that is! I'm nearly 30 (which makes this even more cringe-worthy to me) and I have not been in a relationship for 2 years. That was a long relationship too. I've been keeping away from men because I had major issues to deal with. I have never asked a guy out and feel really out of sync with the dating world. Only certain men ever get my attention and one at the gym has and I think I'm ready to have some fun. I am pretty sure he is interested in me, he kinda makes it obvious and he's been looking at me in a subtle way for a long time. I now want to seize the opportunity but am petrified - it seems like he is shy. I could pluck up the courage to talk to him but he is always surounded by men at the gym (sleazy ones) and there's no way I would start chatting to him randomly in front of them. My other option is to find out more about him through my personal trainer. But as a challenge to myself - I want to do this myself! What do you suggest? Thanks x
Professor X Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 (edited) Next time you get eye contact, just mark him to come to you or follow you (either with your hand or with your head). Shy or not, there's no way he's stupid enough to not know you're calling him to come over. Another idea, since you're in the gym, is that you can just go train next to him. Edited May 2, 2011 by Professor X
Author nama Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 I love the generalisation waynebrady! 'Women like me'? You know nothing about me. Thanks Professor X - that's a good idea. I really don't know what I'm afraid of - I don't think it's rejection even.!
AstroZombie138 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 I believe waynebrady is what the internets refer to as a "parody poster".
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