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Thought he was just not into me and then he calls???


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Hi all need some advice and a big reality check!! I was seeing this guy who was inconsistent but as he always initiated contact I thought Id give him the benefit of the doubt !!!! He then said he'd call me one weekend and then I didn't hear from him for a week and a half!! When he finally got in contact asking how I was I was polite and responded that I hoped hd was ok and that we'd speak soon I never got back in contact and neither did he for two months and then out if the blue I get a text saying 'hey stranger' and asking how I am and what I'm up to! I was shocked as generally thought he wasnt interested but just didn't know how to say it!!! So I responded that I was good, explained what I was up to and asked him the same questions - he responded that he was going away fir the weekend and that I should enjoy my weekend and we'd speak soon!!

 

That was over a week ago and again no contact!!! Do u think he interested after all and if not why bother contacting me at all??? Now although when we first met he was the one who initiated the contact he would also cancel dates, text me asking questions and then when I responded he wouldn't reply back and when I finally asked him if he just wanted something casual he went quiet for a week but then responded that I hadnt scared him off and that we'd have a chat about it but this 'chat' never happened!!! So I decided to cut my losses but then he gets back in contact !!!! Help please!!!!

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I think he is just keeping you as an option.

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GOOD JOB WITH THE DOUBLE POSTS!!!

 

So desperate you can't even wait 15 minutes?

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