maysj18 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Okay, so while in the gym a couple weeks ago, a very attractive guy came up to me. We had met through a friend a few months prior, but he had a girlfriend of forever at the time so it wasn't a big deal. Well, he came up and re-introduced himself and we exchanged numbers. Jackpotttttttttttt. Well, the mutual friend of our's who had introduced us earlier in the semester calls me and tells me she has good news. Apparently, he talked to her about me (not knowing just how close the two of us are) and tried to secretly ask her things about me. He asked where I usually hung out and what my schedule was in hopes of running into me again which I thought was cute. We texted here and there for a couple days then decided to hang out in a group. It was so much fun and he said he had a blast and I mentioned we should hang out again, just one on one. He happily agreed and we were supposed to watch a movie later that week. I ended up going somewhere with a friend and cancelled, BUT we got lunch the next day. Nothing really happened as far as romantic advances, but according to my friend he spoke extremely highly of me. My friend isn't the very best wingman though and told him point blank that I'm a virgin and when he asked how I act in relationships and if I'm the type of girl to get attached she said "NOOOOOOOOO!" I mean, all of it is true, but I'm sure you guys see where I'm coming from when I say her wingman skills are rusty. This past weekend I texted him and asked if he wanted to see a movie, but he had gone home for the weekend. No biggie, I just went with someone else. He texted me twice that night to see how it went, then messaged me on fb the next day to see what I was up to. Very short, brief conversations. WELL THAT NIGHT I get a call from my wingman, telling me to never talk to that guy again. Apparently he started talking to another girl on the same sports team as my friend. He then told my friend "Yeah, hopefully Jess gets the hint that I don't want to talk to her anymore. All of my friends keep asking if we're talking and so I haven't been answering her texts in hopes that she'll stop talking to me." That. went. all. over. me. He made it seem like I was nuts about him. We hung out TWICE and HE texted ME THREE TIMES that weekend! I texted him once. ONCE. I really do understand that maybe the interest wasn't there, that's totally fine. I didn't even consider us in the "talking" phase, we were just friends. I mean, I went out with a couple of different guys during the couple of weeks we talked. It's not like it was serious. I just find it a bit embarrassing that he took it to the next level and made it seem like I was crazy. I just find this behavior annoying and immature, and I plan on being cordial if I run into him somewhere, but what do you all think? I feel like being nice and mature wins here, but I also feel like anyway I go about this is just going to add fuel to the fire since he may be under the assumption that I have no idea the conversation between he and my friend took place.
Rinnix Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Id just be happy about dodging a bullet. Why would you want a guy like that anyway. You know the truth, it's likely that people can see through his lies too.
Professor X Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Just another teenage drama. You shouldn't make a big deal out of it, nothing really happened anyway. Just drop and ignore.
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