NicoleM Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 I have a friend who is seeing this guy off and on and now back on and she always asks me why won't he commit?? She says they make-out he is very into to her but he won't commit. She wants to have sex with him but she wants to wait until they are bf/gf ( I understand that) He keeps pressuring her to have sex with him but she always tells him I want to wait until we are in a relationship before we have sex because according to her she wants to be his one and only and not think about how many girls he is hooking up with. I want to give her advice but I am really bad at it. So my question is why are guys so afraid of becoming bf/gf
Pfiend101 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 He's probably not interested in a relationship with her... just wants to bang her. F Buddy type situation. The girl will most likely sleep with him then come crying when he still doesnt want a relationship with her.
Author NicoleM Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 That is what I was afraid of. She is my friend and I would hate her to have sex with him and he forget her and be like hey finally got what I wanted see ya....
LoveDoesntHurt Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 I had a similiar situation a few years ago...however we were sleepn together...we did all the things g/f..b/f without the title...after the second yr..i'm like wtf? I would get so upset jus because i didnt have the title...now i have been married to another man i met 9 months..i'm MRS. however he treats me WORST than the one I had no title with? I have a friend who is seeing this guy off and on and now back on and she always asks me why won't he commit?? She says they make-out he is very into to her but he won't commit. She wants to have sex with him but she wants to wait until they are bf/gf ( I understand that) He keeps pressuring her to have sex with him but she always tells him I want to wait until we are in a relationship before we have sex because according to her she wants to be his one and only and not think about how many girls he is hooking up with. I want to give her advice but I am really bad at it. So my question is why are guys so afraid of becoming bf/gf
Author NicoleM Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 I feel for her I really do. I know she wants to have sex with him but at the same time she doesn't want to feel used and since she isn't on BC ( she is catholic) she doesn't want to get pregnant so that is stopping her as well.
Author NicoleM Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 Very,very true. If he did commit he could only say that like you said to satisfy her needs. I think she isn't concerned about the bf/gf title as much as she doesn't want him to mess around with other girls while they are dating. She wants him all to herself:lmao:
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