Wolf18 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 For these reasons you mentioned above is why I will never get serious w/ a chick lol. No offense, but I like my women young & vibrant, so I'm afraid that I'm gonna keep chasing that young hot tail, rinse & repeat. Hahaha. I was going to say something to this guy, but you know what? Women are the same or worse. Hypergamy.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 3, 2011 Author Posted May 3, 2011 Hahaha. I was going to say something to this guy, but you know what? Women are the same or worse. Hypergamy. I agree too. I wish I could be cool like you Romeofud, but we're 2 different people. Women are much worse when it comes to this because they think they're beyond expendable when they're not! In NYC, a lot of women have this self-entitled pride about them that's ridiculous. I hate it! This makes a relatively normal approach feel like a barefoot walk through glass-covered streets. Why oh why cant the sexy fine ones give a man a chance, or at least the benefit of the doubt when he approaches and asks for their number? Instead they rather make excuses as to why she won't give her number. What's the big deal? Just let him call you and see what's up? Obviously, women are looking for reasons to reject a man, be it his height, race, clothes, etc. This is wrong ladies. Us men build this country. And us men put you in the voting chairs. If not for us, you'd be still at home cooking and cleaning (though I'm not against that lifestyle) and raising the kids, period. So, cut this self-entitled BS out and let a decent man talk to you and get your number. And only drop him if he proves to be a worthless jerk. Other than that, we have the right to approach what's attractive, but the same does not exactly apply to you. Personality and how he wants to treat you should.
alethean Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 (edited) I won't bother with the double-dealing right now. It might go wrong on me in a hurry! And I know you women out there who respond to my thread on this matter feel you should be worth more to a man than just your looks, but honestly, your physical attractiveness and how you maintain that is a keeper and knowing your place when with your man ranks you up in value in the dating department. Not your careers and your ability to do the stuff that we can do. That does not create attraction in a man, just in case some of you were unaware, or going about it all wrong. Us men build this country. And us men put you in the voting chairs. If not for us, you'd be still at home cooking and cleaning (though I'm not against that lifestyle) and raising the kids, period. I understand that you're frustrated and all, but... holy hell. Edited May 3, 2011 by alethean
Els Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Awesome. I can't wait til you post here whining about the Dame leading you on for a bit and then dropping you for Gorgeous Hunk.
Dust Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I lived in NYC area for a while and it was hard to date but not impossible. You strike me as some one with little to know experience with women to be asking such a silly question “take plain jane.” No, you never settle. Rating women from 1-10 is a silly guy thing but when you like a girl you don’t rate her, and you don’t let other guys rate her. You say to yourself “I’m attracted to that girl and I want to get to know her.” (in more ways then one) 0-3 is hardly a bad day. Seriously, 0-100 and you shouldn’t even be complaining. How hard is it to strike up a quick flirty conversation with the infinite attractive women you see each day. Enjoy yourself and stop stressing about your non problem. Your uncle who cheats his butt off is setting himself up to be played the same way. Treat people in the honest respectful way you would want to be treated, not for them but so you can respect yourself.
Nexus One Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 On behalf of women every where, if that's how men feel, I'm glad to be single for the rest of my life. You do understand that his opinion is not the opinion of every guy out there right?
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 3, 2011 Author Posted May 3, 2011 I lived in NYC area for a while and it was hard to date but not impossible. You strike me as some one with little to know experience with women to be asking such a silly question “take plain jane.” No, you never settle. Rating women from 1-10 is a silly guy thing but when you like a girl you don’t rate her, and you don’t let other guys rate her. You say to yourself “I’m attracted to that girl and I want to get to know her.” (in more ways then one) 0-3 is hardly a bad day. Seriously, 0-100 and you shouldn’t even be complaining. How hard is it to strike up a quick flirty conversation with the infinite attractive women you see each day. Enjoy yourself and stop stressing about your non problem. Your uncle who cheats his butt off is setting himself up to be played the same way. Treat people in the honest respectful way you would want to be treated, not for them but so you can respect yourself. Dont you think I would do that if it were so easy? It ain't! Good-looking women in NYC ignore men whenever they get the chance unless the guy comes out of a Mercedes Benz, or it's Johnny Depp in the flesh. I'm not referring my rants to average women. This is exclusive to beautiful ones. And I'm glad you pointed out how difficult it is to date a NY woman so the people in here dont feel I'm talking through my ass. I've dated before but it's been a very long time, and it's getting so much harder as I get older. Women put too much unrealistic expectations on a man. One of the main reasons a lot of men go younger, like Romeofud and others. To avoid this latent garbage. Back in HS girls were simple. Just talk to them, make them laugh a little bit, and you were in. That's how women would be today if society and the corrupted media hadn't gotten a hold of them.
mr.dream merchant Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 At risk of sounding idiotic, ask yourself, what would the Dos Equis Spokesman do?
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 For these reasons you mentioned above is why I will never get serious w/ a chick lol. No offense, but I like my women young & vibrant, so I'm afraid that I'm gonna keep chasing that young hot tail, rinse & repeat. And when you are on your lonely deathbed, you will either 1) look back on your life and laugh at how much fun you had. Or 2) be sad that no one cares about you too. Depends on what type of person you are. That's the mature response...but I will admit, the first few seconds after I read your post, all I could think was "F--- you." I agree too. I wish I could be a jerk like you Romeofud, but we're 2 different people. Women are much worse when it comes to this because they think they're beyond expendable when they're not! In NYC, a lot of women have this self-entitled pride about them that's ridiculous. I hate it! This makes a relatively normal approach feel like a barefoot walk through glass-covered streets. Self-entitled pride? There are some women like that, true. But they are the significant minority. Women are human too, and generally intelligent enough to be humble and realize faults. We are our own worst criticizers. Why oh why cant the sexy fine ones give a man a chance, or at least the benefit of the doubt when he approaches and asks for their number? Instead they rather make excuses as to why she won't give her number. What's the big deal? Just let him call you and see what's up? Obviously, women are looking for reasons to reject a man, be it his height, race, clothes, etc. This is wrong ladies. Being a sexy fine one is not easy ok? When you have men approaching you ALL THE TIME what are you suppose to do? Spend your entire time hanging out with pathetic losers who don't care about YOU, just your body, cooking skills, and ability to bear children? And who just won't get the hint unless you outright reject him? When a woman is attractive, she often gets men who continue pursuing EVEN when she makes her disinterest clear. And she must be careful about rejection because some men can get CRAZY MAD...and she risks rape or getting hurt? And then gets the blame for "leading him on." Women don't have to look for reasons to reject a man. There just ARE reasons. Just like how you don't have to come up with reasons why a woman isn't attractive, she just isn't. Period. Us men build this country. And us men put you in the voting chairs. If not for us, you'd be still at home cooking and cleaning (though I'm not against that lifestyle) and raising the kids, period. @#$%! :lmao: If not for YOU?? If not for the GREAT LADIES who refused to accept their "place in society," you mean! Men AND women built this beautiful country called America. 50% of the population is female! If you want to "claim credit" for building the country, then at least credit WOMEN for giving birth to every single human being on this planet. In addition, you almost sound as if you are personally responsible for the freedom women experience today. And therefore women should be obliged to serve you, "cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids." Yea right. Get off your high horse. So, cut your self-entitled BS out and let a decent woman talk to you and get your number. And only drop her if she proves to be a worthless biatch. Hypocritical much. You are contemplating dropping a perfectly good...."5"...just because she's not blessed with a beautiful body. Think about how, if YOU had women panting after you, that you would begin rejecting them because of constraints on your time and effort. Other than that, we have the right to approach what's attractive, but the same does not exactly apply to you. Personality and how he wants to treat you should. But the same does not exactly apply to you? @#$$$%%%. :lmao: Haven't you ever heard of the Golden Rule? Treat others how you would like to be treated. If YOU only approach what's attractive, then women should have that right. If YOU treat women according to their personality and value and a human being, then women should judge you that way as well. Balance is key. /rant
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Dont you think I would do that if it were so easy? It ain't! Good-looking women in NYC ignore men whenever they get the chance unless the guy comes out of a Mercedes Benz, or it's Johnny Depp in the flesh. I'm not referring my rants to average women. This is exclusive to beautiful ones. And I'm glad you pointed out how difficult it is to date a NY woman so the people in here dont feel I'm talking through my ass. I've dated before but it's been a very long time, and it's getting so much harder as I get older. Women put too much unrealistic expectations on a man. One of the main reasons a lot of men go younger, like Romeofud and others. To avoid this latent garbage. Back in HS girls were simple. Just talk to them, make them laugh a little bit, and you were in. That's how women would be today if society and the corrupted media hadn't gotten a hold of them. So...why WOULD a beautiful woman date you? Just because you're "decent?" Then you go find yourself a "decent" girl as well....aka average. You put unrealistic expectations on women too. Beautiful. Loving. Cooking skills. Raising children. And willing to look the other way when she's older and you go out hunting for a younger women. And finally, HS relationships are not that serious. Less than 1% of HS relationships end in a serious LT relationship. So much for HS girls being simple.
thatdog Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Ok, so you want a beautiful woman who will cook and clean for you and 'treat you like a man'? But you are a 'decent guy'. I know a couple of women like that. They are both married and have never worked a day since they met their husbands. They spend their lives working out, making sure they keep their beauty whilst cooking cleaning and providing for their hubby's 'need'. Hubby works his arse off to pay for the nice house, car, kids, and everything else. I personally find this very old fashioned and ridiculous and would never chase a woman like that but evidently you do. So you have said so yourself, the girls who you chase are only interested in rich men with mercedes etc. So you know what you have to do. quit whining, quit chasing, and work towards getting a good job with good money and then you will have what the girls you want want and everyone will be happy
thatdog Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Or on the other hand you can quit being an arse and start treating your dating prospects with the same respect you want them to give you...
BiscuitXOXO Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 What does this mean? High school relationships. He talked about "HS girls" (high school girls) in his post that I quoted.
Titania22 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 High school relationships. He talked about "HS girls" (high school girls) in his post that I quoted. Thanks Biscuit.
milkmaterial Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 what is attractive for you? anyway this is cruel and will probably suck for your good karma points.
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 OP, you sound exactly like Mr. Dream Merchant in any of his incarnations. Maybe you two should join forces. For a lifetime.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 You've certainly got balls, being able to walk up to women you don't know outside, and in shops, and to start talking to them. Wish I had what you had.
orion1010 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 That is really mean. you could unleash a possible possible psycho by hurting/missing with plain jane. ok, I just was the movie fatal attraction... Also you could cause serious emotional damage. I would remain single and mingle and have fun. the right person will come along.
orangelady Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 On behalf of women every where, if that's how men feel, I'm glad to be single for the rest of my life. I am with you. You stay around longer on here, and you'll find that most men on here who rant about being single are the ones who are always complaining about not being able to get a woman but what they really mean is they can't get a HOT looking woman and they most certainly talk like they actually deserve one. Like the universe actually owes them a hot looking woman. Also, if a female member on LS puts an attractive photo of themselves on their avatar, you can be sure the men on LS will flock to them, sending them PMs or suddenly take an interest in them through their posts.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I am with you. You stay around longer on here, and you'll find that most men on here who rant about being single are the ones who are always complaining about not being able to get a woman but what they really mean is they can't get a HOT looking woman and they most certainly talk like they actually deserve one. Like the universe actually owes them a hot looking woman. Also, if a female member on LS puts an attractive photo of themselves on their avatar, you can be sure the men on LS will flock to them, sending them PMs or suddenly take an interest in them through their posts. This isn't always the case. As I can't even get unnattractive women.
Wolf18 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 (edited) Awesome. I can't wait til you post here whining about the Dame leading you on for a bit and then dropping you for Gorgeous Hunk. If he's in NYC, chances are even plain jane will do it. I swear, compared to other countries and states I've been to, the guys around here of all looks classifications act like they just got out from doing a 10 year stint upstate. It's why most of the women seem to have that trademark "new york woman attitude", even if they look average. While Shaun is probably a troll, I know so many women who act like him (although instead of rating men by looks they talk about "chemistry" or "the right person for me"), so if we're going to be like this he has a right to it. What woman wouldn't trade in her average boyfriend for some "gorgeous hunk"? Men don't do it as often because the opportunity doesn't present itself that often. Edited May 3, 2011 by Wolf18
Dust Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 Like the universe actually owes them a hot looking woman. I feel the universe owes me a hot looking woman, and the universe has always delivered. I mean heck even my mother was beautiful. Life is to short to not be with a woman you love with passion. For me personally hot women are easier to get. An ugly women really couldn’t get me to care less, but a woman I find beautiful will give me energy I never knew I had. As for telling the chronically single guys here to lower their standards, believe me that happens to a man naturally and it’s the only way it should happen. When a man has lowered expectations he will find and be happy to date less attractive women and will no longer care about societal norms of hygiene and appearance. Of course there is a breaking point for that and I assume some men just don’t want to be with morbidly obese women who barely resemble women. Also' date=' if a female member on LS puts an attractive photo of themselves on their avatar, you can be sure the men on LS will flock to them, sending them PMs or suddenly take an interest in them through their posts.[/quote'] This isn’t a dating site.
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