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Why do we keep seeing people we don't want but Don't the people we want?


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This has been an interetsting phenomenon that always happens to me.

 

I see someone in a bus or something. Then i do my stuff for howeveer random hours, and decide to come back home . Guess what? THe person(s) i saw in the bus when i went to do my stuff, ARE going back in that same bus !!!!

 

This happens always. I don't really know how. But it never seems to happen with peopel that i would love to meet.

 

Like i met some awesome girls sometimes, and then i never meet them again even though they still live here.

 

Is there anyway you can increase chances of meeting those people again?

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Go to the places where those people hang.

 

If you're planning on relying solely on chance, than... good luck son.

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Yeah dumb luck never really works out in your favor. There's those movies where it happens all the time but... life in a movie is basically somebody's imagination in the first place. It sure would be cool if that person you really like magically came into your life through serendipitous turn of fate. Life just doesn't move like that. And what if it did? Would you be prepared with what to say? With how to act? You may be so surprised at the event that you'll end up blathering like a drooling fool.

 

If I found a person that I liked and wanted to know more about I would painstakingly plan and execute a "happenstance" meeting. The other person is actually taken aback because of the chance encounter and you're left with the social upper hand. If you can plan a way to accentuate all your positives during that meeting, be it through show of wealth, strength, gastrointestinal fortitude, or what have you... then you're in a better position to ask for numbers, dates, or whatever you may want from the encounter.

 

I found that I would gather a LOT of information about a person in a short amount of time by taking note of what they say, what they're carrying, and what they're doing at the time. If that person is getting on a bus bound for wherever... you can narrow down within a few blocks of their intended destination. Just open your eyes, and your ears and you may be able to plan an "unintentional" meeting with your potential lover.

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