Sugarkane Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 This is the ex that sent me here: www.loveshack.org/forums/t261358 Is this a case of BPD? If not, then how can you explain someone dumping for no reason and vanishing?
2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Hi Sugarkane It is all too easy to categorise people's decisions into a disorder, maybe it is BP Idk but he may just not have been that into a RL with you, and this is not because it was you, it could have been for a million different reasons, maybe it just didn't suit him at the time or whatever other reason. I tend to just look on it as an experience and move on, I know how heartbreaking it can be when someone you really want to make a future with just walks away as if they don't have a care in the world but you can only do good things for you, it is pointless wasting your life on this episode and constantly re-evaluating it. 2011
Fufu Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 It doesn't matter if he has or not. You are not him. He's not you. Relationship has ended, and it's time to move on.
Author Sugarkane Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 Thanks you're both right. Coz I found some memontos of our relationship, by accident recently, it got me thinking about him. I'm naturally analytical and want to know the whys of everything. So someone doing a 180 on me and vanishing didn't help. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, except my ex. Onwards and upwards.
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