Yasuandio Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I mean, some of us really get close. I watch a few members take on a recent case to it's happy reunion recently. The dude would have scared her off without LS! I truely believe LS members and resources offered were instrumental, if not critical to the eventual resolution. He is extremely grateful I absolutely know that. And, it ain't over yet. While I wish I could, but have not provided a complete story, due to complex, and contentious divorce proceedings (approaching 2.5 years), I nevertheless, too, have recieved some highly useful insight on my personal situation. Reading the stories of others has also caused me to grow and mature in my perception of being abandoned, rejected, and abused. One poster in particular, hmm, might as well say, Janedoe35, totally changed my life. I have also seen my repressed anger perminently displayed on the LS site. This too has been a learning experience! As I am an extremely humple person, slow to anger, and gentle as a lamb! I cannot recognize myself in some posts I've made and have had to apologize for! My point in this thread, is that a certain group of us stay, and/or eventually are healed. Sometimes, someone wonderful drops out of the picture, like Gunny! Why is there not some sort of yearly gathering of the LS vets? I mean, a couple weeks ago I had the pleasure to meet one of you! I could have sat days with this person, and soaked in their wisdom. And, perhaps, there was something about quirky me the other person liked! Why couldn't this be on a grander scale? Once a crisis subsides, There is so much to talk about and share! Other success stories I can easily predict, that is if the respective poster(s) will even want their spouses back after their journeys. The talent of the poster I met was extremely interesting. Imagine what we all have to offer! Anyway, this is an idea! I know people are short on funds and all that. However, I would eat beans out of a can for months to save up to meet DOT in person! Now she's one knowledgable gal! Of couse, many other's of you too! She's just been on my mind lately. Your thoughts I would enjoy very much. PS. I know it is anonomous. But at times, LS people know more I bet about some of you than anyone! And once established, and proven not to be a nutcase, what is scary about knowing who gives you the outstanding advice that saved your relationship, marriage, sanity, or family? PSS Please weigh in Gunny.
Author Yasuandio Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 (edited) My worlds are colliding... Wow, that was a fast response art critic. I wish I had that technological ability! And the recall to find a particular episode of Steinfeld on UTube. OMG. When I met a member a week a so ago, I didn't find our worlds colliding in the least. I sorta get your point, I think. Is it a science fiction, double feature, picture show, about which I don't know? Uh oh, uh oooooohhhhhh! Are you saying it's a dumb idea based on the theory posited in the early science fiction flicks? Its certainly possible there is some kind of theory or real hard science on this that I dont know about. (That's what has always frightened me about my Government education. If you don't really know what you don't know, how can you know what you should actually try to know?) I knew I should have stopped posting!!! (With 20,000+ posts, Art Critic,, I guess you get why I'm a lil' bit "drawn" to the medium). Please excuse. Another Yas error. Just let the thread disappear to poster's Heaven! Edited May 1, 2011 by Yasuandio
change Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I mean, some of us really get close. I watch a few members take on a recent case to it's happy reunion recently. The dude would have scared her off without LS! I truely believe LS members and resources offered were instrumental, if not critical to the eventual resolution. He is extremely grateful I absolutely know that. And, it ain't over yet. While I wish I could, but have not provided a complete story, due to complex, and contentious divorce proceedings (approaching 2.5 years), I nevertheless, too, have recieved some highly useful insight on my personal situation. Reading the stories of others has also caused me to grow and mature in my perception of being abandoned, rejected, and abused. One poster in particular, hmm, might as well say, Janedoe35, totally changed my life. I have also seen my repressed anger perminently displayed on the LS site. This too has been a learning experience! As I am an extremely humple person, slow to anger, and gentle as a lamb! I cannot recognize myself in some posts I've made and have had to apologize for! My point in this thread, is that a certain group of us stay, and/or eventually are healed. Sometimes, someone wonderful drops out of the picture, like Gunny! Why is there not some sort of yearly gathering of the LS vets? I mean, a couple weeks ago I had the pleasure to meet one of you! I could have sat days with this person, and soaked in their wisdom. And, perhaps, there was something about quirky me the other person liked! Why couldn't this be on a grander scale? Once a crisis subsides, There is so much to talk about and share! Other success stories I can easily predict, that is if the respective poster(s) will even want their spouses back after their journeys. The talent of the poster I met was extremely interesting. Imagine what we all have to offer! Anyway, this is an idea! I know people are short on funds and all that. However, I would eat beans out of a can for months to save up to meet DOT in person! Now she's one knowledgable gal! Of couse, many other's of you too! She's just been on my mind lately. Your thoughts I would enjoy very much. PS. I know it is anonomous. But at times, LS people know more I bet about some of you than anyone! And once established, and proven not to be a nutcase, what is scary about knowing who gives you the outstanding advice that saved your relationship, marriage, sanity, or family? PSS Please weigh in Gunny. I have no money right now, but I couldn't agree more. I think this is an absolutely splendid idea. Bravo, Yas. I never thought I'd feel this way about an anonymous, online forum.
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 For me Yas.. I have this world and my real world and they don't know each other.. I do have many friends from LS on my facebook and I would do anything for any of them but the idea of meeting people who I don't have on my FB would be very unnerving.. I think I would no longer be able to post on LS because of the loss of anonymity. There are many people on LS who have met each other and even a pair that post every day that met on LS who are engaged to be married so don't feel bad about wanting a convention..meeting somone from LS isn't the end of the world.
worlybear Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I agree with Art Critic- I treasure the anonymity of LS. My family and friends have no idea how desperate I get sometimes and LS is a life-raft!
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