Timbo22 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I was doing really well with my break-up 3 1/2 years with her was amazing and the best time of my life. I've really been trying to adjust and become a better person. Catching up with old friends, working out anything to keep my mind off of her. Well last night I was with all my buddies having a great time...Well sure enough I'm downtown 100's of people out and She runs right up to me hugs me and starts making out with me in front of everyone... I was in shock my friends were and I was happy. I couldnt believe it, yet she had to go take care of her drunk friend and we could only hangout for 10 min. Well today she calls me and wants to go out for lunch, I agree thinking this will be good with what had happened last night. My hope were high yet I played it really cool made her laugh smile everything. I looked good had confidence and she was constantly checking how she looked... Then boom she starts talking about the relationship. She ask's "Why did you stop parting when you met me" ... Then I popped the question why did you make out with me like that in front of my friends everything. She said she was drunk and made a mistake, wow did that hurt along with this bs " We will probably get back together just not right now I cant." And " I really wanna be friends with you because I miss you alot." Seriously wtf? she has problems and has become a hardcore partier. I don't know what to think of the whole thing, except she hurt me yet again and now I feel like a 100% backup plan getting stringed along like that... I was NC, Feeling better until she pulled this. Now Im hurting yet again and it feels almost like day 1.
bringherbackbobby Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Timbo! Ahh...sorry to hear about your situation bro. It's like, we put all this time and energy into taking 10 steps forward and here comes the ex girlfriend, and in one day, all the steps we've taken feels like we've been walking in place the whole time. It sucks, I know... What was your response to her when she made the comment about how you guys probably would get back together...just not now? Did you let it slide and give her the power to make that decision for you?
Sugarkane Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Hi timbo it seems like whenever you're moving on an ex tries to throw a spanner in the works, just to test us. I know how you feel, as an ex from last year has contacted me a few times last couple of months. He promosed to meet up with me and talk about things, only to stand me up! Typical hey? From my own experience they try and blame things on you, that they do themselves. Like the ex that brought me here. He dumped me by phone and insulted me by text, completely out of the blue. He blamed everything on me saying that I have no social skills and can't communicate. Pretty ironic for someone dumping me completely out of the blue, by phone! It seems like this ex of yours is trying to do the same thing aswell?
Fufu Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 We will probably get back together just not right now I cant." And " I really wanna be friends with you because I miss you alot." Read this over and over again. A person who seriously wants to be with us will not resist being with us. Don't fall into the friend trap. In fact you should be glad that she's not being serious and committed to you.
Author Timbo22 Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 She texted me last night at like 11 too saying that she was sorry for being a B1tCH ... I'm just ignoring it.
Fufu Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 She texted me last night at like 11 too saying that she was sorry for being a B1tCH ... I'm just ignoring it. I'm proud of you not giving in to reply her. Keep it up
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