Hold fast Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I have been seeing a MM for one year,he left his wife in October but still keptt me a secret. We have been very happy and he said in three to six months he would tell her from now. We have been out tonight and had a lovely time but when we got on the bus there were some people shouting his name. I kept on walking,they chatted and he ddidn't introduce me,then he satt down I asked if he was ashamed of me and embarrassed he said that I shouldn't have kept on walking but I was only a few seats back and they were introducing their girlfiends too him and looking at me.He became furious and said it was my issue and I had to resolbe it on my own. We got off the bus and he went mad with me saying he'd told me it'd be 3-h months and clearly it mattered to me to much. I said you never say you love me and he shouted and became furious saying he did love me bit didn't want his head messing with again and said see you when I see you and left me in the street. I don't know what I've done wrong,I love him with all my heart,I can't stop crying. Please help,I am all alone now it's the middle of the night.
Irishlove Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Wow, I'm sorry honey but this MM sounds like a jerk. Still hiding you after they are divorced? It's time to have NC and move on. He has no intentions
Brokenlady Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 OMG. I'm so sorry. Please dump his ass. If you've read my backstory I went through the same kind of thing. 4 years of hell. Now I'm with a lovely single man who loves me. Please dump him and don't look back. Save yourself.
daisy love Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Awww, honey! I'm SO SORRY! Here's what ya godda do! Have your cry, then do the 180 on him. Yep! A 180. Don't call him, make him call you! Go out with friends and GUY friends too. Party it up! Make sure he knows that he is not your only option. He's not!!! Trust me girl, it works! My lover was supposed to spend the weekend with me. Guess what? His WIFE decided she wanted to come along! UGH! No problemo señor. I be dancing the night away with a GORGEOUS MAN! And lover knows it and he's going CRAAAAAZY!! Texting me ever 5 minutes!! Sayin' baby, don't have to much fun, baby I miss u, baby I try 2 c u 2morrow! HAHAHAHAHA!! Try it baby!! (((HUGS!!)))
TurboGirl Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 OMG. What a jerk, to leave you in the middle of the street and in the middle of the night! Yes, so he is separated... however, that does not mean (well, after seeing how he treated you!) that he is planning on staying with you. You might just have been the exit affair. Or he may end up going back to the W. That kind of anger he displayed to you was unjustified... he sounds like a total self centered Azz. No one should ever treat you that way. Kick him to the curb, please do not contact him. GET MAD!!! not sad. This guy is sounds like an immature mean spirited jerk. Do you really think that based upon what you said to him, his reaction was in line? No way. A man should never ever dump you & leave you like that. ((((HUGS)))) dry your tears, he is not worth it.
Breezy Trousers Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 That's emotional abuse. Dump him. Don't look back.
Carrot2000 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Hold Fast, it sounds like you're dealing with a man who just got out of his marriage and doesn't want a serious relationship. As long as things are easy and fun, he's happy. He doesn't want you to ask anything of him or expect him to actually behave like he's in a relationship. He left his wife, but that doesn't mean he's looking for another one. It might be time for you to back out of this relationship.
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