Anna86 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Hey!! So I have complained here many times that I am not over my ex. However, tonight I decided to be brave and go out with all my friends...and some mutual friends. I know that my ex was seeing somebody, even though he continues to deny it...I just knew. Anyway, so I saw him tonight and told him I don't care...I spoke to his new girl and I actually liked her!! She was nice. I am in noway full of myself, but I ddnt feel insecure around her, I felt like I am pretty compared to her, she is pretty, but in a different way to me...anyway, I spoke to her, never said I was his ex and moved on..... So later, I met this hunk of a guy, and spoke to him all night, near were my ex was (ok, i did make more effort with him as i knew ex was there, but i had to move on)....well, my ex came over and said bye as he was leaving with this girl.... ok, so i have not cried yet, i feel ok...is this a sign I am moving on? never mind about the guy i met tonight, i dnt see any future....but the fact i was ok around my ex and new gf says a lot?? I feel proud......This time 2months ago i would have cried and cried sooooooo badly.... hope for u all........
smudge21 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 You're realising the honest truth: that the emotional bond you had to your ex wasn't to do with him, it was all you. Now you're realising that you can direct that emotional bond onto others. The ex was just another person who you connected with, nothing amazingly special about them and definitely not 'the one'. It takes time to get where you are and I envy you (as I'm sure so do others), so make the most of this time and enjoy it. If you have another bad day at some point, just remember how you feel now.
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