tigressA Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I tend to be more appreciative of looks that aren't mainstream attractive. There are many people out there who just look 'dime-a-dozen' to me and I'm not really a fan of the typical girl/guy-next-door, all-American look. Maybe that's why I've been dating foreigners for the last year and a half.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 I tend to be more appreciative of looks that aren't mainstream attractive. There are many people out there who just look 'dime-a-dozen' to me and I'm not really a fan of the typical girl/guy-next-door, all-American look. Maybe that's why I've been dating foreigners for the last year and a half. I tend to be attracted to looks out of the norm too, however something tells me that I blend in with everyone else looks wise.
Johnny85 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Lol the way everybody is describing themselves, one would think that the Loveshack only has a bunch of supermodels on the site!!!
Johnny85 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Every 30 seconds I make sure to look myself in the mirror, give myself a duck face, and show my rippling abs off to myself as a gift to me for being so darn hot.:love: I know right; A Zoolander style "professional supermodel.":p:laugh:
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Everythe 30 seconds I make sure to look myself in the mirror, give myself a duck face, and show my rippling abs off to myself as a gift to me for being so darn hot.:love: Soo desireable :love:. Id never leave the mirror!
SmileFace Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Every 30 seconds I make sure to look myself in the mirror, give myself a duck face, and show my rippling abs off to myself as a gift to me for being so darn hot.:love: <-- I think I just giggled. Anywho, I would so date myself.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Its good to see that most people find themselves to be a catch
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Lol the way everybody is describing themselves, one would think that the Loveshack only has a bunch of supermodels on the site!!! Actually... from what I have seen on the show your face threads thruout the years it is an accurate assesment to say that LS is full of hotties.
Woggle Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Yes I would. If for some reason I ever became single again I would clone myself and then give my clone a sex change.
Nexus One Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Its good to see that most people find themselves to be a catch It's a biological mechanism for men to see themselves as more attractive than they actually are (in the opinion of women). Research has been done regarding this and that was the conclusion.
LostInTurn Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I have quite a bit to offer someone... and people tell me all the time. However, my heart is so closed off, that no, I would not date myself because I would never let myself in.
SmileFace Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I have quite a bit to offer someone... and people tell me all the time. However, my heart is so closed off, that no, I would not date myself because I would never let myself in. What this person said.
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I have quite a bit to offer someone... and people tell me all the time. However, my heart is so closed off, that no, I would not date myself because I would never let myself in. When the right person comes along.. you will open your heart...
LostInTurn Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 When the right person comes along.. you will open your heart... I've tried and unfortunately it doesn't work.
Professor X Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Go to http://www.hotornot.com , post yourself there and you might get a boost with your self esteem (regarding your outer appearance). I know I did =)
thatdog Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Yeah Rinnix - ' A little above average'? If I'm ever single again I'm packing my bags and heading to Montreal --- so do you like kebabs? ;p
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Yeah Rinnix - ' A little above average'? If I'm ever single again I'm packing my bags and heading to Montreal --- so do you like kebabs? ;p Haha, Ill be waiting on that visit. I'm down for kebabs
Kelemort Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I'm chubby, so that basically rules out most shots at being viewed as attractive by the male population at large. I'm pushing my mid-20s and I can think of 4 men total who may have been interested in me. Two of them would've been interested in anybody who talked to 'em, though. Other than that, I'm pretty average, I guess. Other than that, I suppose I'd go for me. I don't have much to offer physically, but personality-wise I think I'm in a good place. I go above and beyond for people. But maybe that's also tied into the weight thing and knowing my options are limited. Would I date myself? Since I assume most people only bother to get to know those to whom they are physically attracted, probably not. Even a sparkling personality can't save you there if no one's going to bother to see it.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 I'm chubby, so that basically rules out most shots at being viewed as attractive by the male population at large. I'm pushing my mid-20s and I can think of 4 men total who may have been interested in me. Two of them would've been interested in anybody who talked to 'em, though. Other than that, I'm pretty average. Wrong! Being chubby does not make anyone unappealing. Many men prefer curves over stick thin women too. The more beautiful your character, the more your outer appearance will shine too! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Many people thought I was unattractive, others think I look good. Don't cut yourself short
LostInTurn Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I'm chubby, so that basically rules out most shots at being viewed as attractive by the male population at large. I'm pushing my mid-20s and I can think of 4 men total who may have been interested in me. Two of them would've been interested in anybody who talked to 'em, though. Other than that, I'm pretty average, I guess. Other than that, I suppose I'd go for me. I don't have much to offer physically, but personality-wise I think I'm in a good place. I go above and beyond for people. But maybe that's also tied into the weight thing and knowing my options are limited. Would I date myself? Since I assume most people only bother to get to know those to whom they are physically attracted, probably not. Even a sparkling personality can't save you there if no one's going to bother to see it. If you're in your mid-20s you have so much time! I'm in my late 20s and feel like I could have used some of my time more wisely, even a year in some aspects of my life. As for how you view yourself. Don't discredit your image. A positive view towards yourself helps in how you're perceived, present yourself and your overall self. It's not about being that super model girl walking a runway. I'm a female and I don't like the guy who frequents the gym, honestly. I like a man who is more real. Stay positive!
LostInTurn Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Wrong! Being chubby does not make anyone unappealing. Many men prefer curves over stick thin women too. I agree with this. Here's something I'll share which I probably will never forget. I was involved with this guy a couple years back. He was the egotistical, all about image guy. So, being with him I was always super conscious about my appearance. Well, one day he told me that even if I was heavier I"d still be just as attractive. I'm not saying this is ok to say to someone, but I think it goes with Rinnix's point here. It's not all about being runway skinny, people will love you for you if they're right for you.
alethean Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I'm chubby, so that basically rules out most shots at being viewed as attractive by the male population at large. I'm pushing my mid-20s and I can think of 4 men total who may have been interested in me. Two of them would've been interested in anybody who talked to 'em, though. Other than that, I'm pretty average, I guess. Other than that, I suppose I'd go for me. I don't have much to offer physically, but personality-wise I think I'm in a good place. I go above and beyond for people. But maybe that's also tied into the weight thing and knowing my options are limited. Would I date myself? Since I assume most people only bother to get to know those to whom they are physically attracted, probably not. Even a sparkling personality can't save you there if no one's going to bother to see it. Well, if I recall correctly, you do have a boyfriend (right?). So you can't be too horrendous.
thatdog Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Well, one day he told me that even if I was heavier I"d still be just as attractive. I'm not saying this is ok to say to someone, but I think it goes with Rinnix's point here. Sorry a little OT here, but i really don't get this. It's NOT ok to tell your SO that you think she would be beautiful even with a few extra kilos? or that you think she is already beautiful and doesn't need to lose weight? I've said this before to SO and I know sometimes it actually upset them but I was never told why. can any of you girls enlighten me please?
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 I prefer both at the same time yet the sticks and the curves are in a war with each other. It feels like they both expect me to pick a side and stick with it otherwise I have betrayed them. Even if I picked one the other would feel betrayed. The drama never ends. It doesn't matter. In a little over 30 years I'll be in a nursing home and it will all be over. Someone else can play the games I lost at. Size isn't a huge factor when I'm dating. I'm thin but its due to my genetics. As long as the person is healthy and has a cute face then there is no stopping me from pursuing. (+ great character) It's ridiculous to think theres sides, we are all people.
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