threebyfate Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 On the flip side, many people don't notice how awesome they are, and their standards are too low--in practice, if not in thought.True. Or they pretend to lower standards to solicit compliments. Yes, I would date myself. The numbering system is weird so I'd peg myself as above average.
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Yeah, I'm sure you do Psst, what is that supposed to mean? If you read all previous comments, you'd see that someone sure believes I have many.
cerridwen Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Dp change had nothing to do with the thread, I was more fond of my old one honestly. Kind of funny to see it mentioned though. ? DP=Double post. Technical difficulty. I posted the same content twice. To be clear, I think your post is sincere. I wasn't accusing you of anything. It's OTHERS who I anticipate will be competitive. Again, you're very cute (in both avatars) and I have no problem saying so. Mazel tov!
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 True. Or they pretend to lower standards to solicit compliments. Yes, I would date myself. The numbering system is weird so I'd peg myself as above average. I think it's best to have confidence, but not an ego. I don't need compliments in order to be happy with my reflection. I always compared the number scale to being looked at like meat. We have more value then that.
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 ? DP=Double post. Technical difficulty. I posted the same content twice. To be clear, I think your post is sincere. I wasn't accusing you of anything. It's OTHERS who I anticipate will be competitive. Again, you're very cute (in both avatars) and I have no problem saying so. Mazel tov! Looks like I need to learn more posting lingo. *Fail* And thanks :love:
cerridwen Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Looks like I need to learn more posting lingo. *Fail* And thanks :love: Hey, wait. Aren't you going to compliment MY looks?
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Hey, wait. Aren't you going to compliment MY looks? Why what a lovely beard your avatar has
threebyfate Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I think it's best to have confidence, but not an ego. I don't need compliments in order to be happy with my reflection. I always compared the number scale to being looked at like meat. We have more value then that.Ego and confidence go hand in hand. Ego is your sense of self and the more self you have, the greater the confidence. When ego is small, it will require a lot of external validation. I'll admit it. It's nice to receive compliments some of the time. But a lot feels weird and none or constant criticism isn't satisfactory, either. And I'm not going to pretend to modesty, just to solicit compliments. That's just nauseating and manipulative. Yes. A slab of meat, graded for quality.
AstroZombie138 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 i MUST be jealous right? You're average imo, you're not brutal. If I thought you were hot a 10 or 9, I'd say so. Ass No way OP is average.
Art_Critic Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Yes. A slab of meat, graded for quality. There is a good joke in there somewhere...
welikeincrowds Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Experts like myself prefer to cut out the middleman and go straight to the USDA scale. e.g. "That bitch is choice." "Nah bro, don't do it, she's utility."
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 No way OP is average. Aw thanks! But don't worry about defending, maybe in her eyes I really am not good looking. That is okay to me! I don't think I would want to date her either, it's all fair
threebyfate Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Both of you are so bad! And realistically speaking, men have meat.
welikeincrowds Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Both of you are so bad! And realistically speaking, men have meat. Mine's a T-Bone Prime
welikeincrowds Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 "welikeincrowds, You have been flagged for violating the LoveShack community guidelines" "Please, do not talk about your penis in the dating section"
Author Rinnix Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 "welikeincrowds, You have been flagged for violating the LoveShack community guidelines" "Please, do not talk about your penis in the dating section" Very smooth.
somedude81 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 What's pretty funny, is that as hard as I am on myself, I would date myself if I was cloned but the clone was turned into a woman. I think I'm a great guy and the only reason I haven't had a relationship is because no girl was willing to give me a chance. Sadly, no woman has seemed to be able to overlook that I don't have model good looks and that I'm only 5'6. I think I would be a great boyfriend. But I seem to be easier to please than the vast majority of women.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 What's pretty funny, is that as hard as I am on myself, I would date myself if I was cloned but the clone was turned into a woman. I think I'm a great guy and the only reason I haven't had a relationship is because no girl was willing to give me a chance. Sadly, no woman has seemed to be able to overlook that I don't have model good looks and that I'm only 5'6. . I know many women who wouldn't find 5'6 a deal breaker at all. I'm 5'3 and Id date anyone my height and up. Model looks differ from person to person, to some you can be average, and to others you could be a model. Theres no such thing as model good looks to me.
Darren Taylor Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I know many women who wouldn't find 5'6 a deal breaker at all. I'm 5'3 and Id date anyone my height and up. Model looks differ from person to person, to some you can be average, and to others you could be a model. Theres no such thing as model good looks to me. The funny thing with models is it's not always about the best looking. It's all about a certain look.
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 I know many women who wouldn't find 5'6 a deal breaker at all. I'm 5'3 and Id date anyone my height and up. Model looks differ from person to person, to some you can be average, and to others you could be a model. Theres no such thing as model good looks to me. Well then, come down here to sunny Cali. Canadia is too cold for me. Plus the reindeer riding mounties scare me. If my looks is not the problem, it's probably the fact that I don't come on very strong and girls just end up wanting to be my friend. You don't want to be my friend do you? Please say no
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Well then, come down here to sunny Cali. Canadia is too cold for me. Plus the reindeer riding mounties scare me. If my looks is not the problem, it's probably the fact that I don't come on very strong and girls just end up wanting to be my friend. You don't want to be my friend do you? Please say no Haha, it's quite warm at this time here now, but id be happy to be anywhere but here. I generally go for the "nice guy". The over aggressive, pushy male has no appeal to me. I actually have rather different taste in men when it comes to aesthetics too.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 The funny thing with models is it's not always about the best looking. It's all about a certain look. Depends what type of model we are referring to also. Runway models it's all about the body structure, as they are used as clothes hangers for the clothing. I'm perfectly happy living without model status.
Darren Taylor Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Depends what type of model we are referring to also. Runway models it's all about the body structure, as they are used as clothes hangers for the clothing. I'm perfectly happy living without model status. Yes. Facial features are more important in runway and fashion. You don't necessarily need all that for commercial and modeling that focuses on certain body parts. I wouldn't want to date a model anyway. I'd be perfectly content with someone average-slightly above average looking.
Author Rinnix Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Yes. Facial features are more important in runway and fashion. You don't necessarily need all that for commercial and modeling that focuses on certain body parts. I wouldn't want to date a model anyway. I'd be perfectly content with someone average-slightly above average looking. To me, all that matters is that I'm attracted to who im dating. It doesn't matter if someone else sees them as average or not. I never go with scales, to me it's either I'm attracted, or I'm not.
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