Kain Highwind Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 We've had a pretty rough relationship. We've been friends for about a year but we didn't talk for a few months because I liked her and she started dating someone and I asked her out and was turned down. They split up and we've been talking a lot again lately and I asked her to hang out like next weekend. She said yea but she wants me to meet this new friend of hers and that we could all hang out together. She said she's really cool and I'd enjoy meeting her We're gonna be going on a picnic at the park I don't mind one of her friends tagging along since we're just friends right now but is she trying to hook me up with her? If so, that'd really suck
AstroZombie138 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Sounds like she's not interested in you romantically.
EyeAlone Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Maybe or maybe not. She may just be bringing her friend along to make sure that you know that this picnic is not a romantic date and will not turn into one.
Author Kain Highwind Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Maybe or maybe not. She may just be bringing her friend along to make sure that you know that this picnic is not a romantic date or turn into one. That's what I'm hoping for. I mean I'm not even considering it a date or naything. I just asked to hang out and she suggested the picnic and its understandable considering how long its been since we've done anything. this is also the first time I'd ever be with her and another one of her friends. I'm friends with like one or two of them but its always just been me and her hanging out And besides, she was downright blunt the last time. That's how she is, so if she's trying to hook me up, I think she'd say she wasn't interested first, right?
EyeAlone Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 And besides, she was downright blunt the last time. That's how she is, so if she's trying to hook me up, I think she'd say she wasn't interested first, right?Right. If a woman was really into you, she would NOT be setting you up with a friend.
Author Kain Highwind Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Right. If a woman was really into you, she would NOT be setting you up with a friend. But what I'm getting at is that, I've been turned down before by her downright telling me how she felt She's a really blunt person, so wouldn't she be more direct about her lack of romantic feelings instead of just implying it by hooking me up?
EyeAlone Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 But what I'm getting at is that, I've been turned down before by her downright telling me how she felt She's a really blunt person, so wouldn't she be more direct about her lack of romantic feelings instead of just implying it by hooking me up?You've been pining away for this girl for a long time. Perhaps she's tired of it all and is going for the "actions speak louder than words" approach. But whatever, she obviously doesn't like you romantically so just move on.
Author Kain Highwind Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 You've been pining away for this girl for a long time. Perhaps she's tired of it all and is going for the "actions speak louder than words" approach. But whatever, she obviously doesn't like you romantically so just move on. But I still don't know if she's setting me up or not. I mean, I've never hung out with any of her friends before so this could just be her way of like working me into her circle or something. I mean, I asked her to hang out, so if she wanted her friend to come to, even just to hang out (not hooking up or anything), it'd be common courtesy to ask anyway, right?
chuckles11 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I don't mind one of her friends tagging along since we're just friends right now but is she trying to hook me up with her? If so, that'd really suck Why would it suck if she was trying to hook you up with her friend? You need to get over this girl. She's told you multiple times that she isn't interested in you. I'm surprised she's even agreeing to see you again.
Author Kain Highwind Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Why would it suck if she was trying to hook you up with her friend? You need to get over this girl. She's told you multiple times that she isn't interested in you. I'm surprised she's even agreeing to see you again. The times she told me she wasn't was when she was talking to someone else. Since she's been single again, we've been talking more and more, pretty much all day every day, way past the point of what we used to do. Considering how I've turned my life around compared to how I used to be, I thought I was making progress.
mo mo Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I've messed around with 7 different women (with varying levels of affection) throughout this whole scenario with this girl, ever since you started posting about her. Coulda been more too. Just want to put things in perspective for you.
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Kain, haven't seen you in a while. There are two possible reasons for her bringing a friend. 1. She wants you to get to know her friend so you will forget about her. 2. She wants her friend to chaperone. To make sure that you aren't not alone with her, to prevent you from getting the wrong idea. To make sure that you dont' try anyting. Number 2 has happened to me except in my case, she has the audacity to invite a guy friend at the last minute. And this was supposed to be an actual date.
Author Kain Highwind Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Kain, haven't seen you in a while. There are two possible reasons for her bringing a friend. 1. She wants you to get to know her friend so you will forget about her. 2. She wants her friend to chaperone. To make sure that you aren't not alone with her, to prevent you from getting the wrong idea. To make sure that you dont' try anyting. Number 2 has happened to me except in my case, she has the audacity to invite a guy friend at the last minute. And this was supposed to be an actual date. I really don't even see number 2 as being that bad. Its understandable and I'd do the same thing. I'm hoping the fact that I've changed alot would help. I mean, like I said earlier, I never wanted this to be a date
Bridgey Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Kain, haven't seen you in a while. There are two possible reasons for her bringing a friend. 1. She wants you to get to know her friend so you will forget about her. 2. She wants her friend to chaperone. To make sure that you aren't not alone with her, to prevent you from getting the wrong idea. To make sure that you dont' try anyting. Number 2 has happened to me except in my case, she has the audacity to invite a guy friend at the last minute. And this was supposed to be an actual date. This is exactly what I was thinking. Either way it doesn't look good for you Kain. But hey, maybe the friend is really cool and you guys hit it off. Don't go into this close minded. You could end up really enjoying yourself.
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