soundboy96 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Hello, I met a woman I have to come to love back in November of 2010. We started officially dating in March of this year. Things started out great and then slowly I became to distrust her. She told me a lot of white lies. Things that didn't matter at all. It made me start to question what she really lies about that I don't know about. I started questioning her and violated her privacy and pryed into her personal information to find facts. She found out and I admitted to all this. We both hurt eachother badly. We decided we both still want eachother. She said we need to rebuild and take it day by day, with no drama. She says she doesn't know how long it could take. Basically she means we are starting over as friends. She claims we will stay loyal/faithful to eachother through this. The problem is this is a long distance relationship. I am moving near her towards the end of the year. Right now she lives in Vegas and I in WI. The problem is its tough to rebuild this far away. I went down there last weekend to visit and we went from having sex with eachother the prior (pre-fight visit) to not even holding hands or kissing even once this last weekend. It was VERY TOUGH and awkward from going from everything to NOTHING. We slept in the same bed, though...just no interaction. She doesn't talk to me nearly as much or text me nearly as much anymore. I don't know if it's punishment or if she lost a lot of care for me. It's way too expensive to fly every 3 weeks to see her when we are just "friends." I suppose if I really love her I should though. Do you all think this is a smart process we are doing? Do you think it's worth it?
iceweasel6 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Save yourself now. That 0-60 mph, up and down rollercoaster is a warning sign that things won't get better - unless there is some serious mutual understanding between you all immediately that you all have issues, and you all agree to work them out. I don't get that impression from your post. So I would have to say no, it's not worth it.
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