Jump to content
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

Would it be so terrible if I contacted her? So it's been a few days since she broke up with me. I feel very lonely and sad. I can't help but think about all the things we had planned on doing together and will never get to do. I feel like I want to contact her and tell her everything that I'm thinking and feeling. I know "no contact" is the general rule, but I miss her so much. I probably shouldn't contact her though.

Posted

I am sorry you are going through this pain. I too am going through the same. If you feel in your heart that you want to tell her how you feel, then do it but only do it once. I made the mistake of doing it too much and it made it worse.

Posted

My girl dumped me and thats how i found this site.

I spent weeks lurking in the breakup forum reading stories, reflecting. Never once was there a story that making contact was good. Maybe for the pain of further closure I dunno. Point is, wait out the feeling. Dont punish yourself more.

Posted

Trust me dont do it. wait at least a month minimum. your not stable enough to call her. I guarantee you wont be happy if you do it. Let both sides cool down and let reason and logic set in. Then decide if you should or not. Its too soon.

×
×
  • Create New...