rollercoasterlif3 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 (edited) 2 days ago, me and my ex of 3 years 9 months had broken up. It was a mutual agreement.. no hard feelings. He didn't feel the same way as I did although he still loves me, he just wasn't IN love with me. However I love him as much as I did before. I kinda knew it was going to happen soon because we've had the same problem before, and even though, we decided to try. However it is now the end of the road. So my day 1 of no contact included me missing him more than ever before. I can't stress how many times I've resisted the urge not to text him & not to call him. To distract me, I went out with my friend which temporarily cheered me up however I got home & felt all alone again. Just felt like crying. However the day went fast, I spent most of the time on the phone with various friends! It's just a really bad at the moment as well because I've got my graduate exams coming up really soon and I just need to study but I can't seem to concentrate! I was thinking to do NC until my exams are finished (23rd May). During this period I'd be majorly (attempting) to concentrate on it so I guess time will flow by quickly, and by end of May, hopefully it'll be much easier. Anyone else going through NC? Any tips? :-) ps. He's going clubbing tonight and it's making me really worried. I know most of his friends but just the fact that he's going to be having fun while I'm stuck at home thinking & wondering what he's doing & whether he's thinking about me. Ahh. Edited April 30, 2011 by rollercoasterlif3
wreckedhero Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 It's my first proper day of trying today. Let's just hope I can achieve it
Author rollercoasterlif3 Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 You will! Just keep strong. Keep distracted. If you ever feel the urge to text or call, just think twice about it.. what if they didn't text back? would it hurt? but what if they did text back, what would happen anyway? keep going, you can do it :-)
Username37 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Been on NC since June 2010 The first days...hell the first month is hella tough. You wonder what they're doing and wondering if they're thinking about you. But why would they? They left you. Best advice: Surround yourself with people that will ALWAYS love you, leave LS alone for a while, block on FB, delete number. Stay strong, because trust me, life gets better and you'll realize that your ex is nothing but a flake.
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